Pamela Anderson’s Instagram page is mostly used to fight for Julian Assange’s release, but today she used it to announce that she and her footballer boyfriend Adil Rami are done. But this is far from a clean break, because Pamela has alluded to some shady cheating and potentially violent things.
51-year-old Pamela had been dating 33-year-old Adil, who is a World Cup winner and plays for Marseille, on and off since 2017. But earlier this month, the two were touchy-feely in Paris, so it’s a bit of a jolt of a break up. Also a jolt is the reason behind it which seems to be infidelity and with a side of domestic abuse. Pamela posted to Instagram saying she and Adil were over, mentioning a side piece who may or may not live down the street, as well as his lies and then links to a domestic violence hotline:
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It’s hard to accept 💔 The last (more than) 2.years of my life have been a big lie. I was scammed, led to believe … we were in « big love »?. I’m devastated to find out in the last few days. That he was living a double life. He used to joke about other players who had girlfriends down the street in apartments close to their wives. He called those men monsters. ? But this is worse. He lied to all. How is it possible to control 2 women’s hearts and minds like this – I’m sure there were others. He is the monster. How could I have helped so many people @ndvhofficial and not be wise enough or able to help myself.
So that link at the bottom is to the National Domestic Violence Hotline. She also Tweeted out the number recently:
Reach our Advocates 24/7/365 to get the support you deserve. No names, no fees, no judgment, just help. Call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY) or chat online at https://t.co/FoM2Qy3oq3. #DomesticViolence
— National Domestic Violence Hotline (@ndvh) June 23, 2019
I wasn’t sure if this meant she was just in a toxic relationship and couldn’t get out, or if she meant that Adil is a full-blown domestic abuser and got violent with her but then she let it be known that it was the latter.
USA Today says that Pamela claims Rami was an untrustworthy crazy who would always be asking where she was and who was with her. When she learned of the alleged affair, she said Rami started calling her a bunch and even showed up to her hotel randomly. She said she got a bodyguard “because he scares me.” She wrote:
“I will run for my life–I have always fought for truth and justice. This is my worst nightmare. I’m happy to know the truth, but it hurts like hell. …I don’t think I’ll recover easily from this.”
Pamela also made comments on the Instagram post saying that Rami was a real POS and “should not be the face of protecting women from domestic violence, or protecting women at all.” And again she lamented not being able to get herself out of a situation she’s helped so many leave:
“How could I have helped so many people and not be wise enough or able to help myself. I feel used. Betrayed and hurt. But I should have known better. The jealousy. The physical and emotional torture. It was all a mirror of his own actions.”
I don’t think anybody, except for me, wants a reboot of VIP, but if there’s a time that a reboot is needed, now is that time. Because Vallery Irons needs to make a comeback to takedown another alleged creep.