Britney Spears Addressed What She Thinks May Have Caused Her Sons To Refuse Visits With Her; In Response, Kevin Federline Posted Videos Of Her And The Boys Fighting
If you’re like me and have wondered if things will ever calm down on the Britney Spears news front, today is not the day and the rest of the week isn’t looking good now either. Britney and Kevin Federline, her ex-husband and father of their two sons,16-year-old Sean Preston Federline and 15-year-old Jayden James Federline, have been taking turns talking publicly about Britney’s distant relationship with her sons ever since Kevin (seen above showing us how many times he’s been on the horn with TMZ today) opened up about the relationship with their mom in an interview airing on Britain’s ITV and also having his lawyer say that the boys miss their grandpa, Britney’s dad/her mortal enemy, Jamie Spears (who they currently have a restraining order against). Britney and her husband, Sam Asghari, both hit back at Kevin in response. Yesterday, Britney posted (and has since deleted) a lengthy Instagram post outlining what she believes may have led to her sons not wanting to visit with her anymore, and then Kevin clapped right back, posting videos of Britney and her sons fighting. Kevin’s lawyer also spoke out and said that Britney makes her boys uncomfortable and sends upsetting texts.
According to Entertainment Tonight, Britney took to Instagram yesterday to provide an explanation for why she thinks Sean and Jayden haven’t visited her in the last several months–which also included skipping her and Sam’s June wedding–and she doesn’t think it’s because she likes to cup her naked titties and get her ass sandy on her Instagram, which Kevin mentioned bothered the boys.
The 40-year-old singer took to Instagram on Wednesday and shared a lengthy statement, opening up about what may have led to the rift in the relationship with her two kids she shares with Kevin Federline — Sean Preston,16, and Jayden James,15.
For starters, Spears says “the situation should have been 100 percent dealt with privately and definitely not online,” in reference to Federline’s recent interview with the Daily Mail. Federline, who was married to the pop star from 2004-2007, said, among other things, their two sons made the decision not to see their mother and that it’s been “a few months” since they’ve seen her. He added that the teenage boys are bothered by her nude social media posts, though he insisted they still love her as they sort through their separate lives.
Britney Spears’ business handled privately? Is she new here? She thinks that maybe her sons pulled away because she tried to do “devotions” with them and loved them too hard.
Spears said she would lead her kids in “devotion” when they would visit, “where you read two or three pages in a prayer book and talk about it.” She said she always “TRIED and TRIED, and maybe that’s why they stopped coming here!!!”
“I wanted them to love me so much that I might have overdone it!!!” the singer added.
But then she went on to say that the boys were “hateful” when they visited, and that’s probably where she twirled right into the hornet’s nest that would inspire Kevin’s next move.
She noted that parenting growing teens is difficult for any parent but wrote that, “there’s being rude then there’s being HATEFUL.” Spears claims that when the boys did pay her a visit they would “walk in the door, go straight to their room and lock the door!!!”
“Why come visit me if they don’t even visit me!!!” she wrote.
Spears claimed that her sons told her this summer “we may come here less” and that it was fine with her. She claimed she called Federline and told him the boys “are wanting to stop coming here as much, which I get because they have their own thing going on, but I feel like they are being pretty harsh.”
Spears went on to claim that Federline told her, “I would never let them make that decision on their own … I would never do that to you.” Following that conversation, Spears claims the teens stopped visiting her.
“I can’t process how I dedicated 20 years of my life to those kids …. Everything was about them!!!” she said in her Instagram post. “For them to knock the breath out of me … see you can’t fix me!!! No therapy or sense of worship can fix my heart!! I will forever have trauma and I know this, I’ve accepted it.”
Here’s the full read:
— Kamal Mohammed Othman (@kemo_cole) August 10, 2022
According to TMZ, Kevin, probably now fully emboldened to collect checks by Sam’s prior comment about him not working (those PopoZão royalties aren’t significant) and Britney calling the boys “hateful,” took right to his @federline4real Instagram to refute Britney’s guess about why her kids don’t want to see her anymore. He said he was done with the lies and that he and the boys decided as a family to post these videos of Britney fighting with her sons when they were 11 and 12 to show just how strained the relationship has been over the years.
Federline posted a series of videos Wednesday night, saying, “I can not sit back and let my sons be accused in this way after what they’ve been through. As much as it hurts us, we decided as a family to post these videos the boys took when they were 11 & 12. This isn’t even the worst of it. The lies have to stop. I hope our kids grow up to be better than this.”
In the first video, Britney’s engaged in a bedtime argument with the boys, exclaiming, “This is my house, if I wanna come in here and give you lotion for your face cuz it is coarse, and all you tell me is “it’s fine, it’s fine” NO it’s not fine.” She continues, “You better all start respecting me, are we clear?
The video ends with a pissed-off Britney saying, “You all need to start treating me like a woman with worth. I am a woman, ok? Be nice to me. Do you understand?”
A second video, filmed during a car ride, is seemingly an argument stemming from Sean Preston not wearing his shoes, or exposing his feet in public. You can hear the boys, clearly on the same team, argue with Britney over the fact she took Sean’s phone.
Kevin eventually deleted the videos from his account, but here’s the profanity-filled lowlight reel:
After Kevin realized that he was probably in some deep shit after that stunt, his lawyer, Mark Vincent Kaplan, took over and says that Kevin has never spoken ill of Britney to their boys and that she makes them feel uncomfortable and would send upsetting texts, and THAT’S why they haven’t visited her in almost half a year. via TMZ:
Britney Spears has not seen her 2 kids in 5 months, because they feel uncomfortable around her and have received some very upsetting texts from her … this according to Kevin Federline‘s lawyer, Mark Vincent Kaplan.
Kaplan spoke with Kevin after Britney posted her lengthy account of her relationship with Sean Preston and Jayden James … and says his client has never trash-talked her to their kids … he says the boys have made their decision to stay away from her on their own. Kaplan says they have not had a single overnight with Britney in years.
Kaplan says based on Kevin’s discussions with his children and other evidence, Kevin was not comfortable having the boys go to Britney’s house unsupervised. As Britney said in her post, a person acting as a monitor was present when the boys were there.
Kaplan says that the boys love their mom, but they’re angry with her. Britney also accused Kevin of having lots of marijuana at his house in her Instagram post, which Kaplan says is a baseless accusation. Kevin has also voiced his concern that Britney calling her boys “hateful” could put them in danger due to her brazen fans.
Kaplan also says this … Kevin is annoyed Britney said, referring to Kevin’s house, “I can guarantee you, that house has more weed than Ludacris, 50 Cent, Jay-Z and Puff Daddy combined!!!!” Kevin’s response, Kaplan says, was that neither Britney nor any outsider would have any basis in fact to make such ungrounded statements.
And there’s this … we’re told Kevin believes Britney’s recent posts about their kids, especially Wednesday’s — where she called them hard to deal with and “there’s being rude then there’s being HATEFUL” — Kevin says the children are in fear they could be put in danger from overzealous Britney fans.
A Britney source did respond to TMZ about KFed and Kevin spilling their guts.
A Britney source disputes the overnight visits and says the kids have stayed over. The source adds, “Britney loves her kids deeply and this very sad situation has now been made public due to the fact of Kevin doing a tell-all interview with a UK tabloid about their private lives.”
So, wow, that’s an intense 24 hours of mess–but my takeaway? Mama Brit doesn’t like a “COARSE” face and she must have learned a valuable lesson from the Frapp days of old–her sweet Cheetolings will never be barefoot in public.
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