Charo! Charo! Charo!
It is against my belief system to speak foul about international treasure Charo, so don't try to trick me into addressing the invisible hand pinching her nose or the family of slugs that have taken shelter inside of her lips. I don't believe in many things, but I do believe in Charo (and spray cheese and ceiling stars and puppy pee art and Fun Dips and etc...). You can't break me!
Instead I'm going to celebrate the fact that Charo showed up to a Peta event dressed up like she's 23 years late for a La Isla Bonita theme party. But if Charo showed up wearing coolats made out of CROCS and a shrug made out of UGGS, I'd still cuchi cuchi at her feet.
And here's a bunch of hos who got to throw red petals at Charo's feet last night. In order: Iggy Pop with Nina Alu, Kellan Lutz, Shirley Manson, Lea Michele (either her tampon is falling out or the bitch has to piss), Steve-O, Kelly Osbourne, and Joaquin Phoenix.
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Love Kelly Osborne, but that is the most unflattering dress I've seen her wear. And this is after her weight loss. I don't think her figure is "unfortunate." She just has thick muscular looking legs that don't look good in dresses designed for stick figures. P.S. Shirley is adorable as ever. I love her dress.
Nothing is more important in this world than lookin' spiffy
I dont care how much weight Kelly loses, she still has such a messed up, unappealing figure. Ick.
Combining topics here, wouldn't it be thrilling to watch that dancing Golden Retriever accompanied by Charo? They could wear matching dresses!
I've always wondered how Charo played the guitar so well with those longass nails she has. A few long ones here and there are useful for picking, but the whole mitt? Especially on the left hand (assuming she's a righty)--how does she hold down the strings with those claws? Just more evidence of her greatness, I suppose.
Trying to get my Border Collie interested in choreography so I can pimp her out to Letterman, but all she does is burp. I suspect she doesn't like the costume.
Submitted by vidz on Tue, 09/28/2010 - 7:49am.
LMAO!! Mormon face-I never thought of that. Does that mean inbred or something? And no,you're not turning into a pedophile in your twenties. Shane is a dangerous,moody type. It makes him seem older than his true age.
Most of the chow-chows I've had or known were very fierce. Vets are afraid of them. The funniest greeting card I ever saw had a chow-chow sitting with crossed arms,glaring. The caption read "If you want the ball,fetch it yourself."
They can be very stubborn, especially the females.
One of my best friends is a closet intellectual. He collects opera cds, refuses to go to the Opera,once wanted to throw me from a moving car for saying that Callas's recording of Carmen was the worst, and named his cats Maria, Renata & Frederika.
I know, A.cotw, I know. I was afraid and now it's probably too late. After a crappy marriage, I'm no longer a romantic and know that the honeymoon phase is just that, a phase. I'd like to be friends with my next lover/boyfriend. He's coming over tomorrow. What will I do? :)
vidz, you gotta date the people you're comfortable with and it's good to be picky. Who wants to spend time with someone you don't mesh with? LOL, don't end up like me pining over a missed Junior opportunity because you're too afraid to take a risk or think it would be unprofessional. :P
No, it's not just you. His junk DID seem small or he has big hands (not!). Dexter was good and it will be interesting to see where they're going to end up this season. It was a beginning and ending episode (won't say more in case you haven't seen it yet).
Submitted by sonne on Tue, 09/28/2010 - 7:39am.
Are you listening to yourself? Junior asked about an ex-boyfriend in advance. You weren't paying attention.He totally planned to seduce you.At the very least, Junior suggested something would happen as soon as he'd had enough MILF weed to lower his inhibitions.
He's a butterfly man of the non-touchy variety. Kiss him,ignore him,or pull his wings off.
I'm so used to being friends with guys that I never was a flirt or a romantic.
@sonne
I'm one of those people who always remembers cleaners' names, is extra nice to the mentally deficient and minds my Ps and Qs. Guess that makes me a nice person? Yay me! But I'm sure most DListers are. BUT I am somewhat elitist when considering someone for a "real" relationship.
And dayum girl, I've been jonesing for a Alcide/Eric hybrid too!
I loved, loved , loved Andy's and Nancy's "power" conversation last week. And of course the naked scene with the baby. Is it me or does his junk seem small?
Also DExter's back! Yay!
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@acotw
I wish I knew more closeted intellectual types. I find them a real turn on. It's so hard to find guys who actually read nowadays, and I don't mean that kindle crap either. I'm reading the rational optimist btw, it's pretty good. Interesting for amateur sociologists anyways.
I LOVE CHOW CHOWS! THere's a really lovely one , living a few blocks away that looks like Winnie the pooh. He's the biggest coward though, took him ages to let me pet him without cringing. His owner was awfully embarassed.
Also butterfly man, sounds like a great title for a song. Christina, girl, get on it!
ETA: Weird that I find Silas aka "mormon face" so hot since I always, always prefer brunettes. Is also weird to say that I find shane hot too. Am I becoming a pedophile in my early 20s???
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Didn't that douche Joaquin say he quit Hollywood? LOSER!
A.cotw, this guy is danish and that's a good question. I don't know if he's a butterfly man because up until that evening, we NEVER touched except once I playfully punched him on the arm, years ago. In the weeks leading up to the kissing, he asked me a few times if I was still talking with this dutch guy who was kind of a boyfriend. That was strange, especially since I broke up with this guy 3 or 4 years ago, ha ha. Junior wasn't paying attention and it's not like he doesn't know I'm single, he's in my house twice a week. It's just a weird situation all around.
Danes do seem to have a very open mind about sex and don't seem afraid to just go out and do it. Women, too, which is great for them but makes it difficult if you're looking for a real relationship. I've never known danish men to be touchy feely. That was the israeli guy! Danish guys almost seem afraid to make the first move, usually, and wait for the woman to do it. We non-danes have a hard time telling when they're flirting, too. Now germans and brits, they're more obvious and you don't miss opportunties due to misunderstanding signals. Thanks for chatting with me about this. I'm having a good laugh at how ridiculous life can seem at times. I need to grab life by the balls more often, I can see that. :)
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Kelly Osbourne needs to never ever smile in a close up.
VERY few people can pull off an open mouth smile.
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Charo and Sofia Vergara sound the damn same
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Submitted by vidz on Tue, 09/28/2010 - 6:35am.
@Acotw
He also happens to be a chinese national, as most cleaners here are. I've decided elitist assholes are not going to stand in the way of me enjoying my little crush. He's REALLY cute. Also my previous/first boyfriend was an "upper crust" intellectual, and dating him wasn't that fun.
Actually, I lie. The sex was ALOt of fun. And our intellectually stimulating conversations were actually somewhat clit stimulating also. TMI
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Hm. A wise man told me that an intelligent conversation could be better than sex because it lasted longer. Sex begins in the mind. An American type I know well is the closet intellectual-guys who are interested in literature and the fine arts but put on the Phillistine pose.
Submitted by sonne on Tue, 09/28/2010 - 6:19am.
Of course your sense of humor is warped,you're on Dlisted!
I would be tempted to kiss Junior without any serious discussion first.
He sounds like a butterfly man. The only options when a male flirt is around are 1) kiss him or 2)ignore him. The worst butterfly man I ever met was Dutch-Indonesian,wildly intelligent,funny,good-looking,and great company but the worst tease.(Always hugging,running his hands through my hair,hand-holding,pulling me onto his lap for a cuddle, then, acting like I was a rapist.) Are butterfly men a product of Northern European culture? Most of the male teases i've met have been Dutch or Scandanavian.
vidz, it shouldn't be about what a guy does for a job, as long as he has one that's legal, lol, and manages his money well. Sure, it's great if there's tons but lots of rich guys are sleazes. Am also aware that it's easy enough to say this but often not the case because I know people can be jerks. At an old job here, very few people would talk to the cleaning staff, all of whom were nicer than most of the "elite" professor types. Intellectuals can give good talk though. Damn! I want a guy who looks like Alcide on True Blood but can talk dirty like Eric the vampire. :)
Enjoy your crush!
You hit the nail on the head with Nancy's character. Hadn't thought about it before but exactly. Manipulators suck.
Submitted by vidz on Tue, 09/28/2010 - 6:20am.
I think Nancy is a little bit mental! I love it when Andy has a flash of insight and tells her exactly what he is thinking. Pity he couldn't have them before the chaos starts. he is in touch with his feminine side,which never fails to amuse me.
Who cares if we sound like grandmothers discussing soap operas. In my defense, I have never been interested in more than two television shows at once. Speed reading is my game.
Silas's puppy quality is endearing.By ordinary I meant many dudes in California look like him. LOL,my husband is big,blond,and born in the Year of the Dog...he's sweet and clever. We both prefer dogs to cats. I never met a chow-chow or a stray mutt i didn't love.
@Acotw
He also happens to be a chinese national, as most cleaners here are. I've decided elitist assholes are not going to stand in the way of me enjoying my little crush. He's REALLY cute. Also my previous/first boyfriend was an "upper crust" intellectual, and dating him wasn't that fun.
Actually, I lie. The sex was ALOt of fun. And our intellectually stimulating conversations were actually somewhat clit stimulating also. TMI
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Submitted by vidz on Tue, 09/28/2010 - 4:59am.
It's also possible to tell by the look in his eye if he's carefully storing pictures in his head during sex. Mental porn: The Sequel.
So what if an attractive guy is a cleaner and younger.Your friend won't tease when he starts leaving you flowers. Some of my girlfriends were plain weird when we were young. One had a fling with another lawyer in her firm and was disappointed when no one gossiped about it,went out with a guy after her dog bit him at the park and threw a drink in his face when they broke up.
I hope Sonne's nanny isn't a butterfly man. Male flirts are the worst.
@sonne
No probs. Nobody I know watches weeds here, so i have to wait for someone in the US, which is 12 hours slower than us to upload it bofre I can watch. But yes, discussing it here is the next best thing. I really hate MLP's character. One of those "pretty girls" who always manipulates people and creates drama. Listen to me, sounding like my grandmother discussing one of her serials. LOL
@ACOTW
Silas IS like a puppy , and I just happen to love dogs!
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LOL @ Junior and MILF weed. I like that and yes, he's a good guy. The kids like him and apparently so do I. :) I don't think it was a random impulse either but what to do now. This happened a few months ago and we're avoiding it other than the first talk we had right afterwards.
It doesn't sound crazy or slutty to say perfection isn't necessary for good sex. It's the truth!! Confidence is what I was missing. That and fear he'd chicken out so I didn't go all in. No matter. I've been watching RuPaul's Drag U which is showing me that it's not how you look but how you feel inside and how you carry yourself. I already knew this but it's a fun reminder I needed. It's funny to think a man is changing women's lives but he's been there and back, so he knows. She knows, too.
Weeds...Shane is odd but I figured it was just his "psycho" side coming out. That and having been on his own since Nancy started her business has made him more independent. He did have two girlfriends at one point, right? I think his warped reasoning makes sense considering the storylines but maybe my humor is warped. :) In real life, I'd be horrified but as fiction it's hilarious. Should I be worried? ;) Silas reminds me of guys here and you're right, he's puppy cute. Poor guy just wants to go to college and get laid. As for Nancy, I've lost almost all sympathy for her but I don't hate her yet like I did Celia, lol. Can't wait to see where they go now.
Culottes, not coolats.
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ubmitted by sonne on Tue, 09/28/2010 - 4:18am.
Ah, A.cotw, thank you and it's perfectly ok for you to chime in. I think he was genuinely attracted otherwise he wouldn't have made the first move. We talked about it afterwards and when I told him I had feelings for him, he said he didn't for me and he didn't know why he made a move. WTF? He also brought up the "he's the babysitter" thing but he's been with us for six years, so he's now a bit more than just a babysitter. Part of me wants to tell him the truth (that I want to finish what he started, lol) but another part of me is afraid to bring it up again for various reaons, one of which is rejection, another don't want to make him uncomfortable as we all like him as a friend of the family. My kids are both autistic, so finding decent people is not easy but maybe we all got too comfortable? I need to talk to him without doing the "we need to talk" thing. Ugh!
As for Weeds...LOVE IT!! Seeing Andy and the baby again and the yes, the sign language scene. They've outdone themselves this season. When Shane and the hitman hugged, the dude with a tear in his eye, I lmao. I wish I had peeps to watch it with live but this is the next best thing. Silas is a hottie and Shane looks a bit like my older son. That concerns me. ;) Thanks for helping. D-listers are good people!
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Internet chat can be tricky at times. I'm glad we understood each other.The girl talk here can be such light-hearted fun.Most of my friends are guys.
It's impossible to be completely carefree about the way we look,but it shouldn't interfere with Nature's best form of team sport. This will sound crazy,slutty or both:After the first time,I realized that perfection wasn't needed to have and enjoy sex.
Junior must be a great person;you've trusted him with your children for six years. It sounds as though there is respect and friendship on both sides. Now there's lust!Has he been smoking "MILF" weed? (Sorry,I could not resist. :-P) Well, follow your instincts. Mine say that kiss wasn't a random impulse & a serious talk might spoil the fun before it starts.
Although he killed Pilar in self-defense,Shane's behavior is otherwise odd.It was funny, in a warped way,when he and the bodyguard/assassin compared their first kills. I can see why he pretends the baby is his; his reasoning -assaulting people,stealing,lying,and so forth is less wicked than Nancy's inept drug dealing- is bizarre.Silas is cute;though almost ordinary.
He reminds me of a puppy.
Hey vidz, I've been trying to suss out his body language. He's a tough one to figure out but before the kissing, there were definite signs. Now, not so sure because sometimes it's like he's avoiding talking to me and he's always been hard to figure out. It's better now with the talking and I told him I miss the talks we used to have. The situation was getting weird before and now it's just that much more so. You've all given me good food for thought and thank you for that.
I'm sorry if I gave anything away with Weeds. I forgot not everyone sees it at the same time. Won't do that again. :)
Breakdown, you're so right about everyone's body being different and skinny not always being healthy. I think my sisters are anorexic while I've been blessed with what I call the strong german thighs side of the family. Health fanatics are the other extreme. You're also right we can eat better here in Europe. America is drowning in high frutose corn syrup and other crap that makes people gain weight, get unhealthy, etc. Followed your links one day: you are hot and talented! :)
jeez even skinny kelly STILL has fat stumpy legs and can someone please shave that manly ass jaw down christ u'd think w/ all the plastic surgery avail today someone would be able to fix that
@sonne
ACotw said I was going to say. So go for it, if your are single of course. Nothing wrong with giving yourself little moments of happiness. But you also have suss out whether it was a one-off gesture on his part. See whether he's still receptive to you. By that i dont mean wait until he agressively comes on to you again but just watch out for his general body language to see if he's still into you. While we are on this, let me tell you another embarassing tidbit. I totally have the hots for my building cleaner. He's really cute and a 2 yrs younger than me! I told my best friend and she laughed at me and said something to the effect of "how low you've sunk!"
@sonne, acotw, khensu, nightowl, pamela etc
I can't wait to go home, dld and watch weeds. It really Is outstanding this season. Also this is my public email:
lilacfunk@hotmail.com
for whatever.
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@ACOTW
Also, guys have really vivid sexual imaginations- you might be staring in his imaginary porn films,even as we 'speak'. He probably has a good idea of what you might look like nude. Unless he has vast sexual experience,he might be too busy enjoying himself to notice if you have cellulite or whatever it is you're worrying about.
I'm not urging you to be promiscuous,or to have intercourse with anyone who doesn't attract you. I just wanted to point out that you while you're watching your figure,the babysitter is watching as well-and his eyes see differently than yours do.
AHHHH was going to say the exact same thing.
@thebreakdown
I know that I will never be fat.
I officially hate you!
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Alrighty, I'd like to stay up a little longer but I got class tomorrow/later today, so have a good night.
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Submitted by sonne on Tue, 09/28/2010 - 4:09am.
I've been thinking about trying Atkins. I really like meat and green vegetables. My one friend's family went on that diet and her brother lost 28 pounds in two months.
I could start up a blog sometime over the week.
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I love love LOVE to eat, but I don't eat alot of unhealthy things. I don't eat alot of candy or processed foods. I rarely eat fast food and I avoid alot of white foods (sugar/pasta/rice).
And it is not even an effort. It was just hte way I was raised and I just carried it on into my adult life.
I think I eat healthier now because the food is healthier here, less processed, and the portions are smaller as well.
But I DO eat more portions.
Every body is different and you have to listen to your own. I know that I will never be fat. But just because you are thin does NOT mean you are healthy. People starving themselves for a body ideal that is not THEIR ideal is actually worse.
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Ah, A.cotw, thank you and it's perfectly ok for you to chime in. I think he was genuinely attracted otherwise he wouldn't have made the first move. We talked about it afterwards and when I told him I had feelings for him, he said he didn't for me and he didn't know why he made a move. WTF? He also brought up the "he's the babysitter" thing but he's been with us for six years, so he's now a bit more than just a babysitter. Part of me wants to tell him the truth (that I want to finish what he started, lol) but another part of me is afraid to bring it up again for various reaons, one of which is rejection, another don't want to make him uncomfortable as we all like him as a friend of the family. My kids are both autistic, so finding decent people is not easy but maybe we all got too comfortable? I need to talk to him without doing the "we need to talk" thing. Ugh!
As for Weeds...LOVE IT!! Seeing Andy and the baby again and the yes, the sign language scene. They've outdone themselves this season. When Shane and the hitman hugged, the dude with a tear in his eye, I lmao. I wish I had peeps to watch it with live but this is the next best thing. Silas is a hottie and Shane looks a bit like my older son. That concerns me. ;) Thanks for helping. D-listers are good people!
Submitted by TheBreakdown on Tue, 09/28/2010 - 3:33am.
Charo is an amazing guitar player. Always has been. She learned from one of the best.
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Agreed. Charo deserves respect! Other great classical musicians didn't have to become clowns to perform;talent justifies itself. Think about Yo-Yo Ma,Midori Goto,Joshua Bell,Winton Marsalis,Jose Feliciano,The LaBecque sisters, etc. Charo's dizzy routine always gave me the sads.
Yes, limit the foods that cause the problems or eat smaller portions. Everyone has an opinion on this, too, lol. For example, I used to love these frozen pizzas but I had to say no more. Same with white bread. One way that helped me to stop buying them was to remind myself all the crap in processed foods. I will occasionally eat a slice of pizza but not the frozen ones anymore. :) A friend just tried Atkins where you're eating meat and vegetables and she lost quite a bit of weight. She stopped but is still not eating sugar and bread. They have some good ideas about replacing starchy foods, so that might be worth a google.
The reason I took it slow was so I didn't take on too many things at once. That's a good way to set yourself up for failure. Pick one food item to either limit/get rid of/replace with something healthier and take the time to adapt to the change before moving onto the next one. An example from what I did was to replace white potatoes with sweet potatoes, white bread with dark bread and candy with plain popcorn.
Speaking from experience, exercise will make you feel better as well as start to lose weight. Eating better will too. I'm 43 and eating less sugar, drinking more water, etc. has made me look younger, less wrinkles around my eyes for one thing. It's weird but when they say you are what you eat, they're really right. I have to go now but know you're not alone and if people are interested, maybe someone could set up a blog or forum for support since there isn't a forum here anymore?
Submitted by sonne on Tue, 09/28/2010 - 3:31am.
Laughed like a maniac at "Weeds" during the American sign language scene;it was rude and hilarious. What did you think?
Standard disclaimer: This is none of my business.Shoot me if you must.
About the babysitter:
Didn't it occur to you that he is genuinely attracted to you,and was afraid you would reject him? If he has not propositioned you again,that's why! He might be a little shy about a weird birthmark or something-some guys worry about their bodies as much as we do.
Also, guys have really vivid sexual imaginations- you might be staring in his imaginary porn films,even as we 'speak'. He probably has a good idea of what you might look like nude. Unless he has vast sexual experience,he might be too busy enjoying himself to notice if you have cellulite or whatever it is you're worrying about.
I'm not urging you to be promiscuous,or to have intercourse with anyone who doesn't attract you. I just wanted to point out that you while you're watching your figure,the babysitter is watching as well-and his eyes see differently than yours do.
Submitted by TheBreakdown on Tue, 09/28/2010 - 3:33am.
I have a love/hate thing with eating.
When there's actually real legitimate satisfactory tasting foods I don't mind eating but there's nothing I hate more than finding myself eating things I don't even like just out of habit, and that's exactly how I'd describe it: a bad habit.
Of course, if I really wanted to put myself off of eating, I could just try cooking my own dishes. Those are always a big nasty fail at the end.
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Submitted by sonne on Tue, 09/28/2010 - 3:31am.
That is a very good idea to gradually limit certain foods from your diet. Would you start off with limiting whatever food you eat too much of? Starchy foods always gave me issues because it makes me crave more, in my experience. I ought to start exercising again. I did cardio about a week ago and thought I was going to pass out! Maybe I'll start out with Pilates and work my way up to cardio.
Sonne, feel free to drop me an E-mail if you'd like too. :)
(It's in my previous post.)
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Charo is an amazing guitar player. Always has been. She learned from one of the best.
And I have an extremely fast metabolism and I am naturally muscular and I people always assume that I am in and out of gyms and counting calories all the fucking time, so it works both ways.
I hate gyms and if I had to work hard at staying thin I would probably be a porker because I LOVE to eat. It just doesn't look like it.
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Congratulations, vidz!!
Vidz and Khensu, you're not alone! I'm working on losing the last 10kg of I'm not sure how much I gained from pregnancies and then keeping it on from depression eating. Making small changes in eating habits is what helped me to start (like eating rye bread instead of white bread, plain popcorn instead of candy) and then figuring out an exercise program. It also helped to start in a job training program where exercise is one of the offers to get us back on our feet. I'm also in the fourth week of a zumba class. It's great! Six clumsy ladies having a good time dying together, lol. :) Ok, we're not that bad but it feels better we're all in the same place and no one is judging anyone else. :)
Vidz, since you were brave and mentioned friends coming on to you now, my younger male babysitter kissed me and asked me to go to bed with him about 3 months ago (I've so wanted to ask for opinions on an open post). Anyway, confession time...part of me wanted to do it but I was too afraid of being rejected by him because of the chubby body. Of course, it would have made everything awkward afterwards, but guess what? It's awkward anyway. :) I still kinda want to sleep with him though *slightly embarrassed but this IS d-listed and you guys understand :)*
Not sure what that had to do with the topic but really I just wanted you both to know you're not alone, if you need support maybe we can find a place to help each other out when we get tempted, and it feels good to tell someone I want to get busy with my hot babysitter, lol.
@Vidz: Yeah, 22 here.
I am the same exact way. I hate eating in public because I think people are always judging what I eat, so if I *do* eat in public, I try to pick something maybe a bit lighter. If I see a good looking guy, I don't want him to see me.
I do stay up late at night regularly, but some days out of the week I go to sleep early. I tend to not eat during the day but after dinner, I want to eat until I go to bed, it's bad. I don't know about the PMs here either, but we can trade E-Mails if you'd like.
And thank you! Self depreciating humor is a coping mechanism for me. If I can't make fun of myself, I would be much worse off.
@Yucko: If you want, you're more than welcome to talk to me too. I'm going to try and start as of now.
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I can relate to Khensu and vidz, as I sit here... eating ice cream... at 3 a.m. So, I'm done doing that now!
Ugh, must lose weight.
@Khensu
You are abt 22 right? i only lost my weight at 22 After I felt so ashamed at my 21st birthday party. For those who say be comfortable with your body. Screw them. Excess weight always creates alot of extra anxiety. I was always trying to make myself smaller, extremely self-conscious about eating infront of other people, especially cute guys and look down shamefully whenever I enter a clothing store. Losing weight and maintaining is fucking hard. For the longest time chocolate was my friend (and unfortunately my worst enemy); I can't eat chocolate like a normal person. You know, break off a piece each day or every few days. Noooo... I obsess about it until its all gone. THen go out and buy another block.
You probably stay up in the night, which I used to do, because I thought I was a badass, lonely, tortured soul. I also used to munch uncontrollably at night, so if you find yourself doing so, you might want to break out of that pattern. Doing so caused the most initial weightloss for me. We can both help each other. I can't figure out how to Pm people here, but if you find a way, you can give me a buzz.
ETA: I've always loved your siggie!
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Submitted by vidz on Tue, 09/28/2010 - 1:57am.
Congrats on the weight loss.
I've known people who've turned arrogant and/or slutty after losing weight. While I understand that they're just compensating for the lack of self-esteem for so long, it's important to remember where you've come from. I won't lie, part of me would love to get some positive attention after three years. My weight creates a lot of unnecessary anxiety. It's interfering with my social life as I hate being in public anymore. I hate laying down to actually feel the fat on my body. It's really gotta go.
I also agree with you about the diet thing. I'm not going to pretend I've reached this low by doing what I'm supposed to do, but like I said, I stopped taking care of myself. I've been caught in this funk since 2008.
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Creepy, fat, lonely, and bitter since 2008.
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@Khensu
@Pamela
@Nightowl
I used to be seriously fat, especially since I'm so short. It took me 6 months to lose the bulk of 25kg. It took my younger brother 3 months to lose most of 35 kg. Of course he excercised like a motherfucker and puked whenever he felt he ate too much. My brother turned into a manwhore who has never seen a muscle tee he didn't like. And me, I turned into a nun. I've only had one bf before the weightloss. And now that I've got considerably more guys hitting on me, I feel.... really disgusted. Like people whom I've been friends with for a long time or working with suddenly are "romantically interested" in me. "Oh I find you so fascinating". Bitch, I've had been like this all the while. But I know lots of former fatty mcfatties who became really slutty after losing weight.
I still don't have the lean, tight, toned body I've always dreamt of and my batwings love me too much to leave. To people who say fat isn't genetic, fuck you. YEs fat people probabley eat too much of the wrong kind of thing but they probably did that because they were so upset at being fat in the first place. I know I did.
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"All women become like their mothers. That is their tragedy. No man does. That's his." Oscar Wilde
Shirley Manson is ageless perfection
THCHARO!!!!
Submitted by Lohohater on Tue, 09/28/2010 - 12:44am.
yall ever heard this ho play a spanish guitar? best Ive ever heard. will put chillz up and down your arms.
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You're right, she's not just a pretty face!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LgpAlKKftG0
Submitted by nightowl on Tue, 09/28/2010 - 12:25am.
Totally. I'm really sensitive about the comments about my ass.
I think it's awesome Kelly Osbourne seems more confident now, even though I miss her old style and bright colored hair. The Pussycat Dolls thing is silly to begin with, but she looks downright out of her element doing that stupid shit.
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Creepy, fat, lonely, and bitter since 2008.
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Submitted by Pamela on Tue, 09/28/2010 - 12:41am
Cool, I didn't want to appear rude or confrontational. I respect your opinions. Congrats on the weight loss, and good luck with the rest. Twenty-five pounds isn't so bad at all. The last ten were always kind of tricky for me. Hopefully it'll come off faster.
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yall ever heard this ho play a spanish guitar? best Ive ever heard. will put chillz up and down your arms. she isnt the bimbo i once thunk she was, when she was the Love Boat in the fuckin 70's. yes, Im that old! I love this chick. she is a diva.
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My baby clothes made of leather and lace