Salma Hayek Is A Breastfedding Addict

ok. that is SO messed up

Submitted by TOPANGA on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 3:08pm.

Yea, I just threw up in my mouth a little after watching that. I worked at Cracker Barrel in high school and I literally watched a kid get up from his seat at the dinner table, walk over to his mom, lift up her shirt and go to town on her breast.
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That's how they were at the rec centre! (i mentioned it earlier *sigh* i'm saying that a lot today - perhaps too much)But really - that's a bunch of weirdness, even for me.

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Hmmmm....I should start painting pictures of how I feel about my boyfriend's dick. Definitely more appropriate than of my MOTHER'S BREASTS!!!!! WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OK there's a reason it makes you horny. It's because the sucking action and the hormones cause uterine contractions which are helpful in getting it back down to its normal size. That doesn't mean you need to do sexy times over it, and that doesn't mean you need to suckle your middle-schooler. boundaries, ladies, boundaries!

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Yea, I just threw up in my mouth a little after watching that. I worked at Cracker Barrel in high school and I literally watched a kid get up from his seat at the dinner table, walk over to his mom, lift up her shirt and go to town on her breast. The rest of the family went on eating as if it was nothing. Meanwhile I'm standing there with my mouth wide open.

*****"Don't have sex, because you will get pregnant and die. Don't have sex in the missionary position, don't have sex standing up, just don't do it, OK, promise? OK, now everybody take some rubbers."*****

Aaaaaaahhhhhh!!!

I'm sure these two girls will appreciate their mother releasing this video to the world. Especially when they reach high school and get taunted to death. They'll need a substitute by then for sure, probably a bottle of Vodka to suck on for comfort.

Selfish cow, literally.

When my 2nd son got thrush, I didn't know that I had a small crack in my nipple, so he was getting blood tainted milk. Only after I switched breasts during a feeding and hooked the cracked boob up to the breast pump did I see blood coming out.

No bloody pukey times for the kid, but it grossed me out!

Suzy!!! Jesus fuck! Sucking blood? OMFG! Vampire baby.

ps at 15 months, she could very well have said - no thanks ma!

did anyone give you grief about this? (bfing for so long)

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"I'm going to be like a nun - except better dressed. And no church crap." - Pascalle

OMG, why did I watch that youtube video? It is sick to still be breastfeeding an 8 yr old! The mother needs mental help ASAP.

Submitted by Pamela on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 2:45pm.

Coolio. Sorry. Hi-five - let's go get a Timmy's:)

(it's a Canadian thing:)
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Yeah the only Timmy's we have in the US is Tim Hortons.
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LOL! I meant the whole phrase, actually...but I didn't know you guys even HAD Timmie's down there!...Tim Hortons:) Fab - have one on me:)

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Submitted by angel_i on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 2:26pm.
Submitted by Pamela on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 2:18pm.

I completly agree. I wasnt trying to knock anyone's choices. I bf and supplement so I can go either way.
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Coolio. Sorry. Hi-five - let's go get a Timmy's:)

(it's a Canadian thing:)
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Yeah the only Timmy's we have in the US is Tim Hortons.

Submitted by Suzy Farkis on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 2:37pm.
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That is what happened with my first, I went and got him out of his crib one morning, laid in bed, put him next to me, offered the breast and he turned his head. Tried again, turned again. I got up, went and got a bottle, viola. No more boobie times.

Now with my 2nd. He's 3 and would still be nursing had I not cut him off. LOL.

I breastfed my daughter until she was 15 months, she needed to put on weight and I didn't mind because of the health benefits to her (even though she was biting me and I had the tiniest cut I wasn't even aware of, and she wound up drinking my blood, unbeknownst to me. We wound up at the hospital when she was throwing up the blood in huge amounts and we didn't know why, we were scared crapless. I'm sorry, that was disgusting.)

Anyway, I was worried about having to wean her and what would come of that, but one day when I lifted my shirt and moved her onto me, she looked up at me as if to say 'WHAT are you suggesting?' and that was it. She was done forever.

Submitted by dramaqueen365247 on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 2:17pm.
Submitted by M.E. on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 2:12pm.

Back labor! OMFG! It feels like that child is going to rip through your spine.

WERD! I couldn't help myself from crying out as they got worse. The funny thing is, though, that I didn't realize I was in labor at 1st. I was expecting it in my abdomen, not my back.
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Yes, with each contraction I would start crawling up the bed, holdling my breath. The nurse kept telling me to breathe and I told her to fuck off. LOL. Hence why I finally went for the epidural. After 12 hours of hard labor, still couldn't dialate past 5 because I coudn't "relax" enough. Got the epidural, and went from 5 -10 in 30 minutes. WOOT!

Submitted by Pamela on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 2:18pm.

I completly agree. I wasnt trying to knock anyone's choices. I bf and supplement so I can go either way.
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Coolio. Sorry. Hi-five - let's go get a Timmy's:)

(it's a Canadian thing:)

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Submitted by angel_i on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 2:15pm.
@Pamela: It's cool. I get bitchy when people hurl insults as those who choose different lifestyles from their own.

I mentioned earlier that some moms HATE breastfeeding. We have different levels of hormones flowing through us all. And I think SOME moms hate it cuz it makes them feel uncomfortable. I think it's that "arousal". It freaks them out so they just either do waht they gotta do or they don't do it at all.

IMO, babies need what they need but it doesn't mean a Mommy's need ends. If a mommy is uncomfortable with it, in this day and age when we have LOTS of alternatives, then she should just let it lie. At the end of the day - the child has to grow up in that household and it's not a bad idea to let them know what is cool to you and what is not from the get-go. (To an extent, that is - as I said: Babies/Children need what they need - and they NEED it)

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I completly agree. I wasnt trying to knock anyone's choices. I bf and supplement so I can go either way.

Submitted by Sluttsville on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 1:53pm.

Dang, I see you've fine-tuned your satellite tracking.

Submitted by M.E. on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 2:12pm.

Back labor! OMFG! It feels like that child is going to rip through your spine.

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Yeah, man! Props to the back labour poster cuz I heard that shit can kill you!

Sorry, LCT - I was soothing wasn't I?

As I said: My birth was lovely and easy, really. My only problem was my asshole stand-in doctor - otherwise it would have been perfect.

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Submitted by M.E. on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 2:12pm.

Back labor! OMFG! It feels like that child is going to rip through your spine.

WERD! I couldn't help myself from crying out as they got worse. The funny thing is, though, that I didn't realize I was in labor at 1st. I was expecting it in my abdomen, not my back.
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Submitted by rotten_egg on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 2:12pm.

BUT it sucks if many women use breastfeeding as a sexual stimulant, you know, like a sex toy. There are always two sides on a coin.
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using breastfeeding as a sexual stimulant?!?!?!that's just crazy!
and disgusting
and so wrong.
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Darling, I got to tell you something
And I don't say this to everybody
You look marvelous
Absolutely marvelous

When my son started using my nipples as a teething tool is about the time I stopped. Nothing sensual about that.

@Pamela: It's cool. I get bitchy when people hurl insults as those who choose different lifestyles from their own.

I mentioned earlier that some moms HATE breastfeeding. We have different levels of hormones flowing through us all. And I think SOME moms hate it cuz it makes them feel uncomfortable. I think it's that "arousal". It freaks them out so they just either do waht they gotta do or they don't do it at all.

IMO, babies need what they need but it doesn't mean a Mommy's need ends. If a mommy is uncomfortable with it, in this day and age when we have LOTS of alternatives, then she should just let it lie. At the end of the day - the child has to grow up in that household and it's not a bad idea to let them know what is cool to you and what is not from the get-go. (To an extent, that is - as I said: Babies/Children need what they need - and they NEED it)

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LCT - Labor contractions vary. From my experience, regular utuerine contractions were something I could handle, painful, but you know they'll go away in about 30-45 seconds after the peak of pain.

Back labor! OMFG! It feels like that child is going to rip through your spine.

-"Submitted by Mrs.Kravitz on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 2:02pm."

That's interesting. Bad thing is, many natural bodily functions will always be banned due to taboos and bad judgement. I'm sure plenty more moms who feel aroused while breastfeeding will keep quiet due to shame or guilt exactly because said stuff is a big no-no in many cultures or societies. BUT it sucks if many women use breastfeeding as a sexual stimulant, you know, like a sex toy. There are always two sides on a coin.

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Submitted by dramaqueen365247 on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 2:01pm.

Oh I totally agree. Even I got a little upset watching that video. I remember a thread a while back regarding autism that sent many a mommy in to hysterics. But like you said, as long as the mother truly loves and wants the best for the child then most mistakes can be forgiven.

To Mel-Tang: I clicked on that link in your siggie and read some of that stupid page talking shit about the Gosselins or whatever. I've seen that show a handful of times and a lot of those criticisms directed at Kate G are unwarranted. If someone with a whole lotta time on their hands wants to dedicate a web page just to disparage her maybe they should take a gander at mothers like the one in this post. Why pick on the Gosselins who are very devoted parents with intelligent, cute-as-a-button kids?

Submitted by Mrs.Kravitz on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 2:05pm.

Angel--
here's more...remember this?
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I kinda sorta DO remember that. But vaguely and, certainly, without all those details...

as I mentioned (and thank you, dramaqueen) my friend breastfed her daughter til she was five. Her daughter still wanted it and she didn't have a problem providing it. She didn't offer, ever, so when her kid was done - it just stopped.

I also mentioned that her daughter is just like any other teen now. She's not a perfect stellar child nor is she fucked up on drugs or a slut or even a lesbian! She does well in school and has lots of friends and rolls her eyes when you say how mature she looks. She gets along with her mom like every other kid. She loves her all the time but sometimes she doesn't like her, you know?

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Submitted by Mrs.Kravitz on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 2:02pm.
Submitted by Patricia Morgan on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 1:55pm.

I wonder how many of these freaks saying that its "sensual" actually have breastfed! Hmmmmmm

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Arousal, Orgasm and Breastfeeding
The Role of Oxytocin

http://sexuality.about.com/od/anatomyresponse/a/orgasm_breastfe.htm
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Wow then I guess there are alot of mothers "missing out" huh? Regardless of what studies show extending breastfeeding beyond the appropriate age just to "get your rocks off" is sexual abuse period.
Maybe there are all sorts of women out there orgasming while giving birth and breatsfeeding, who knows.
Maybe the duggar chick is one of them. That could explain her army of children.

Submitted by Mrs.Kravitz on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 2:05pm.
Angel--
here's more...remember this?

"In 1992, in a highly publicized case in New York State, a mother claimed that she had lost custody of her child for a year because she was breastfeeding at age three. This mother had reported experiences of sexual arousal during breastfeeding, and authorities removed the child from the home, for fear that this mother might sexually abuse this child. Later, the social service agency in New York that took this action issued a formal statement, saying that there was more to this case than could be disclosed to the press, due to confidentiality laws. The statement also added that extended breastfeeding or even arousal during breastfeeding were not reasons for removing a child from a mother’s custody. Over the next few years, other social service agencies have also investigated cases related to extended breastfeeding, but have not removed children from their homes. These cases have been closed once officials received accurate information about extended breastfeeding and natural weaning. Breastfeeding, at any age, is not abuse or neglect."
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*taking notes* Hamburger Helper out, breast-feeding in. I guess it cuts down on meal preparation time.

Angel--
here's more...remember this?

"In 1992, in a highly publicized case in New York State, a mother claimed that she had lost custody of her child for a year because she was breastfeeding at age three. This mother had reported experiences of sexual arousal during breastfeeding, and authorities removed the child from the home, for fear that this mother might sexually abuse this child. Later, the social service agency in New York that took this action issued a formal statement, saying that there was more to this case than could be disclosed to the press, due to confidentiality laws. The statement also added that extended breastfeeding or even arousal during breastfeeding were not reasons for removing a child from a mother’s custody. Over the next few years, other social service agencies have also investigated cases related to extended breastfeeding, but have not removed children from their homes. These cases have been closed once officials received accurate information about extended breastfeeding and natural weaning. Breastfeeding, at any age, is not abuse or neglect."

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Darling, I got to tell you something
And I don't say this to everybody
You look marvelous
Absolutely marvelous

Thanks, Mrs. K!

I don't gots the time to research for everyone these days like I used to:)

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Submitted by Patricia Morgan on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 1:55pm.

I wonder how many of these freaks saying that its "sensual" actually have breastfed! Hmmmmmm

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Arousal, Orgasm and Breastfeeding
The Role of Oxytocin

http://sexuality.about.com/od/anatomyresponse/a/orgasm_breastfe.htm

Many women who breastfeed have the experience of feeling aroused, and even having an orgasm, while breastfeeding. But because this is something researchers haven’t studied, and it isn’t a regular part of the education of mothers-to-be, many women experience this and then feel silent shame or guilt, as if there is something wrong with them. But there is a very clear reason for the experience and women neither need to feel shame or embarrassment about it which is caused mostly by a lack of information.

Oxytocin is a hormone that stimulates ejection of milk from the nipples, and its release is triggered by breast stimulation. But oxytocin is implicated in many other physiological processes. It is involved in contractions of the uterus (both during childbirth and during orgasm), as well as being associated with the feeling of relaxation and satiation following orgasm.

It is thought that this is the reason that breastfeeding may produce feelings of sexual arousal and orgasm. And the experience is far from rare.

In a 2000 study of breastfeeding women, 40.5% of the participants reported feeling sexually aroused at some point during infant suckling. 16.7% reported being aroused frequently during breastfeeding.

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Darling, I got to tell you something
And I don't say this to everybody
You look marvelous
Absolutely marvelous

Submitted by angel_i on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 1:55pm.
Submitted by Pamela on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 1:49pm.

Submitted by Patricia Morgan on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 12:12pm.
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Um...maybe people think that because the definition of sensual is:

Inducing pleasurable and/or erotic sensations.

I've never had a baby but I'm quite sure erotic is not one of the sensations you are supposed to have towards your child.
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Well dear sister as you know I have brought two babies into the world and I can assure you any normal mother knows there is nothing "sensual" about breastfeeding your baby.
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Talk about skipping half the fucking thread.
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Yeah sorry about that, I have to at least pretend to work the first hour or so Im here or my boss gets all pissy.

SeH: I think most of us are only militant when the mother does not put the child's needs first. I think, as long as you do that, & you love your child, a lot can be forgiven.
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"I'm intellectual & stuff." "You're flunking English. That's your mother tongue & stuff."

http://www.myspace.com/dramaqueen365247

That video was disturbing and sickening. In my opinion, that is incestuous and abusive to those girls. The family is deluded.

Submitted by angel_i on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 1:58pm.

My experience was that it was better than my regular cramps. Or, more accurately, exactly teh same only it only lasted a minute and it only came every 11 minutes. It was like heavenly menstrual cramps really. And the birth didn't hurt, really but I DID take Demerol (honestly, its cuz I heard it was a fun high;- alas - nothing is when you're in labour), so I dunno.
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Now this is the shit I LIKE to read, versus the usual 'you'll want to kill yourself it's so bad' stories.

WHAT A BUNCH OF WEIRDOS LOL

Submitted by M.E. on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 1:32pm.

Honey, If I was a man, I'd be a hermit, sitting in my house masturbating all day long.
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O do you have to be a man for that?
I didn't get the memo:)

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Everyone who keeps insinuating that this ignorant mother's behavior will result in her daughter growing up to be a lesbian is a bloody moron. Not enough is known about human sexuality to say some shit like that. That just makes it sound like all homosexuals are the result of childhood trauma or abuse. I'm not saying that the daughter won't have any psychological issues stemming from prolonged breast feeding, but keep the gayelle comments to yourself.
That being said, I'm glad I don't have any children (yet). All the militant mommies on Dlisted get a little skeery when anything regarding child rearing or childhood diseases comes up for discussion.

Submitted by missy on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 1:44pm.

Im all set with spawning as well. I dont trust my genes.

and this:

Imagine. The worst period you ever had, combined with the feeling that your spine is being pulled out and you are shitting a basketball.
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My experience was that it was better than my regular cramps. Or, more accurately, exactly teh same only it only lasted a minute and it only came every 11 minutes. It was like heavenly menstrual cramps really. And the birth didn't hurt, really but I DID take Demerol (honestly, its cuz I heard it was a fun high;- alas - nothing is when you're in labour), so I dunno.

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Submitted by DUDE on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 1:55pm.
Submitted by M.E. on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 1:32pm.

Honey, If I was a man, I'd be a hermit, sitting in my house masturbating all day long.

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Welcome to our daily struggle.
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Seriously, If I had a wonder wand, jesus, I'd either be masturbating or fucking all day long.

I remember an interview that Lindsay Wagner gave years ago where she talked about breastfeeding her son until he was 5 or 6….I clearly remember her saying that when he was hungry, she would tell him to ‘climb on up and get it himself’.

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Submitted by angel_i on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 1:55pm.
Submitted by Pamela on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 1:49pm.

Submitted by Patricia Morgan on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 12:12pm.
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Talk about skipping half the fucking thread.

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Submitted by Clarisse on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 1:51pm.

LCT,
20 condoms and a side salad!!!
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Ahhhh, condoms. I miss the scent.

Submitted by Pamela on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 1:49pm.
Submitted by Patricia Morgan on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 12:12pm.
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Um...maybe people think that because the definition of sensual is:

Inducing pleasurable and/or erotic sensations.

I've never had a baby but I'm quite sure erotic is not one of the sensations you are supposed to have towards your child.
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Well dear sister as you know I have brought two babies into the world and I can assure you any normal mother knows there is nothing "sensual" about breastfeeding your baby. You do get a certain kinda of joy from providing food for your young and not to mention all the endorphins it releases but thats pretty much it.
I wonder how many of these freaks saying that its "sensual" actually have breastfed! Hmmmmmm

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Safe to say Dickhead Dirkler is not one of them! Nor slutbag im sure.

Submitted by M.E. on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 1:32pm.

Honey, If I was a man, I'd be a hermit, sitting in my house masturbating all day long.

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Welcome to our daily struggle.

the DUDE! abides...

Submitted by Pamela on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 1:49pm.

Submitted by Patricia Morgan on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 12:12pm.
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Um...maybe people think that because the definition of sensual is:

Inducing pleasurable and/or erotic sensations.

I've never had a baby but I'm quite sure erotic is not one of the sensations you are supposed to have towards your child.
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Well dear sister as you know I have brought two babies into the world and I can assure you any normal mother knows there is nothing "sensual" about breastfeeding your baby.
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Talk about skipping half the fucking thread.

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How is it that a woman doesn't know that there are plenty of women out there that can't reach orgasm by intercourse alone?

Sheeps,
Don't forget
Breast-feeding a 10 year old = bad.

Breast-feeding a 30 year old = good.

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Submitted by Sheeps on Wed, 11/12/2008 - 1:46pm.
I know some really smart people from Kentucky.

I have nothing else to contribute to this thread, but I have been taking copious notes: "Childbirth hurts." "Hot tubs: good."

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Forget Kentucy....Stafford, Connecticut...ok? I'm from Connecticut and I can admit without getting my panties twisted that the state I live in has a town full of inbreeds.
People seriously need to relax.