Dimitri Identified?
Is Elegant Olga's douchetastic voicemail stalker the infamous "Dimitri the Lover" from Toronto? After I posted Dimitri's douche-rant to Elegant Olga, a bunch of you sent me links to articles and websites about Dimitri the Lover.
Dimitri the Lover was in local papers in Toronto a while ago after he was stripped of his medical license for sexually assaulting patients. Yes, he used to be a doctor. His explanation was, “At the time, I was married. And my wife was sexually dysfunctional, I had not had sex with her in a year and a half. It was a very tough time, I was very horned up. And I was busy, between that and working, so for me it was easy to hit on chicks that were patients.”
He's pretty well known in Toronto for being the biggest douche alive. He's also part of a group known as Toronto Real Men. It sounds like a circle jerk group. Toronto Real Men is part of the "seduction community." I guess, they try and fuck as many chicks as they can.
There's a lot more info on Dimitri the Lover's website as well as this interview he did. There's also a super small picture of him on this website.
Dimitri totally thinks he's Frank Mackey from "Magnolia." Even Tommy Girl is rolling her eyes at that.
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Submitted by La Angel on June 28, 2008 - 7:53am.
Hey, I'm living in Greece RIGHT NOW and I'm reporting what I have seen and heard around me. Don't whine to me because you didn't think it was flattering enough. Greeks are so nationalistic that they can't seem to handle any criticism of their country at all, but I'm not Greek so I don't give a fuck.
Greek society is very sexist. And animals are treated in an appalling manner here. I don't think that's coincidence; it's been proven over and over that animal abusers graduate to humans.
I didn't say Greece is an evil country, or that there aren't any redeeming qualities. There are. The people, except for the police, have been mostly friendly and the food is great. But I know people who can't stand Greece and won't come back here, and it's usually because of one of the two negative traits listed above.
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Submitted by islandgirl on June 28, 2008 - 2:13am.
pc, shmeece!.. hi, i.g.!(hey, does that rhyme?!)
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"I am a man, who still does what he can.
to dispel our archaic reputation.
I am a man who has heard all he can.
Cuz, I don't fare well with endless punishment."
OK, MAYBE I'm a little bit tipsy. Are we talking about porn, or midgets? Or midgets who do porn? Both? Is it even PC to say midgets? I don't frickin' know.
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Submitted by angel_i on June 28, 2008 - 2:01am.
if there's one thing i've learned here, it's TV loves his midgets!LOL!
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"I am a man, who still does what he can.
to dispel our archaic reputation.
I am a man who has heard all he can.
Cuz, I don't fare well with endless punishment."
Submitted by EastEndGirl on June 28, 2008 - 1:59am.
*hanging head in shame*... *going to corner*....
sshhh!... you're always front runner, porn just kicks ya into overdrive!
OT: just... can't.. do it!
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"I am a man, who still does what he can.
to dispel our archaic reputation.
I am a man who has heard all he can.
Cuz, I don't fare well with endless punishment."
Submitted by EveryStrangersEyes on June 28, 2008 - 12:55am.
geezus, is it still midget day?!?.. what? did TV take over this site!?!
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So many midgets, so much porn...it made cleaning day the best day ever:D
TV loves midgets too?!?! I always knew there was something I liked about that guy.
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ESE,
Go sit in the corner!!! You had an on topic statement.
Righto, see how I got my porn site on the D?
This should make me front runner. :)
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Submitted by angel_i on June 28, 2008 - 1:51am.
Didja see my hot midgets?
geezus, is it still midget day?!?.. what? did TV take over this site!?!
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"I am a man, who still does what he can.
to dispel our archaic reputation.
I am a man who has heard all he can.
Cuz, I don't fare well with endless punishment."
Uh...hey migraineuse, first: i'm greek and i've never experienced misogyny from my father, grandfather or uncles so think before you use people's personal examples to set precedents and stereotypes for whole societies.
second: he's not even really greek, he's a wasp. Dimitri is a name he's fashioned for himself so that girls who fall for stereotypes (like you do) might also fall for his schtick.
so...yeah, dust the cobwebs from your head, please, before you make hurtful generalizations about people's cultural backgrounds, even if they're your own.
@ESE
It's Tranny Gollum!
PS. thank you so much for saying hi:) I was about to change my siggy to: ThreadKilla! edited to add...Ummmm. Yeah, actually I'm going to do that!
Didja see my hot midgets?
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Submitted by angel_i on June 28, 2008 - 1:41am.
uuumm, hi angel!... uhh...yeah.. what in THE fuck is your new avitar?!?... scary!LOL!
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"I am a man, who still does what he can.
to dispel our archaic reputation.
I am a man who has heard all he can.
Cuz, I don't fare well with endless punishment."
Submitted by EveryStrangersEyes on June 28, 2008 - 12:37am.
Submitted by . on June 28, 2008 - 1:35am.
oh yeah!!... none of what you just said is helping my laziness!!LOL!
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LOL! I just popped on cuz I can't sleep...and dat's funnay! I don't have Yahoo either...I also consider it spyware. Or rather...I can't make it not spyware.
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Submitted by EastEndGirl on June 28, 2008 - 1:36am.
wow! two times on here in a row!... hi, EEG!!
OT: silly.. just, silly
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"I am a man, who still does what he can.
to dispel our archaic reputation.
I am a man who has heard all he can.
Cuz, I don't fare well with endless punishment."
Submitted by . on June 28, 2008 - 1:35am.
oh yeah!!... none of what you just said is helping my laziness!!LOL!
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"I am a man, who still does what he can.
to dispel our archaic reputation.
I am a man who has heard all he can.
Cuz, I don't fare well with endless punishment."
All right...I am signed into yahoo and am missing the unfortunate tattoo party as well.
Pouty Face.
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ESE, yahoo is a fucking asshole to install so be sure to use the 'custom install' feature if you plan on using it and don't let it install all of that retarded shit on your computer which *I* personally consider spyware but some folks like the 'features' so whatevs and to each their own.
Submitted by parissucksliterally on June 28, 2008 - 1:28am.
and once again, i miss the party... been meaning to do the whole i.m. thing... just.. SURPRISE!!... i'm fuckin' lazy!
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"I am a man, who still does what he can.
to dispel our archaic reputation.
I am a man who has heard all he can.
Cuz, I don't fare well with endless punishment."
Submitted by parissucksliterally on June 28, 2008 - 1:28am.
ESE...do you have Yahoo IM? I am chatting with TV...come join us.
And I get left out.
Awwwwwwww nice. *pouts*
ESE...do you have Yahoo IM? I am chatting with TV...come join us....
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"In a word or two, it's you I wanna do; no not your body your mind you fool..."
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Submitted by parissucksliterally on June 28, 2008 - 1:16am.
hi, PSL!... just tryin' to keep my liver in it's rightful place at this point!.... no meeting Mrs. K's dad yet... she's such a tease!LOL!
OT: this guy has some serious parental issues
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"I am a man, who still does what he can.
to dispel our archaic reputation.
I am a man who has heard all he can.
Cuz, I don't fare well with endless punishment."
ESE! How the hell are ya this evening? Met Bunny Kravitz's Dad yet?
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"In a word or two, it's you I wanna do; no not your body your mind you fool..."
- Prince "Sexy Muthafucka"
Submitted by Migraineuse on June 28, 2008 - 1:04am.
This asshat needs to be burned alive.
gotta disagree, from what i remember(i may be wrong) people pass out from the smoke when being burned alive... i say good 'ol fashion torture.. just off the top of my head... "The Rack"
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"I am a man, who still does what he can.
to dispel our archaic reputation.
I am a man who has heard all he can.
Cuz, I don't fare well with endless punishment."
P.S.
This asshat needs to be burned alive.
Regarding the Greekness...well, I hate to say it, but there ARE very sexist characteristics about Greek society. I know a Greek woman who was raped and when she tried to report it to the police they laughed in her face.
They grow up dominated by their mothers, so there's probably a lot of suppressed anger at women. The ironic part is that mothers dominate their sons so much here precisely BECAUSE the society is so sexist...they don't have any direct power so their only power is in controlling their children. The only way to break that cycle would be the very thing this guy hates so much...feminism.
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"I thank God I wasn't born to a life of idle douchebaggery." - Secret Original, 6/24/08
Submitted by thlayly5 on June 28, 2008 - 4:53am.
I really meant that an equal relationship is the best kind.
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I agree. Sex isn't a good way to deal with control issues. It's not a rational process. I think some people self-medicate with sex the same way that others do with alcohol or drugs; the behavior is stereotyped rather than spontaneous, and the emotional dynamic is rather sick.
People who can't relate to others as equals are messed up inside. It is not just some alternative lifestyle choice.
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"I thank God I wasn't born to a life of idle douchebaggery." - Secret Original, 6/24/08
What's this guy about, really? What did he do?
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Submitted by thlayly5 on June 28, 2008 - 12:03pm.
Submitted by angel_i
Actually I have had that happen to me here in Japan. They had asked me to pay for half of a meal or even worse pay half for a love hotel for sexy times. I wuz like WHUT?! Fuck no. You just lost your chance for any punanny buddy.
For some reason they are cool with going dutch here. Because the girl doesn't want to feel like she owes him anything or some shit like that.
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miso!
THAT was heelarious! What a jackass! I'm tempted to give him number one.
I stole this from that Confessions site:
Dave Pye said...
At least he didn't take off his shirt and then snap a come-hither picture of himself in his bedroom with what looks like a grainy webcam. At least he has that going for him.
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LMAO! That's what *I* was thinking!
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damn..the website's exceeded it's bandwidth....
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be honest...is my wig on straight?
miso- that story made me laugh so hard....
OMG- no court in the world would ever, ever grant him anything! If you want to split the bill, you do it at the time of the meal- an paying for a meal doesn't entitle a man to anything- no second dates, nothing- he had the f-ing pleasure of your company at dinner- that's enough! I paid for a date's meal once, just to be different, and I didn't expect a damn thing in return. "
To alcohol! The cause of and solution to all of life's problems!"-
O. MY. GOD. I just went to fact check this guy for a caption and his bandwidth is exceeded which means MK and Jezebel may have made this fucker famous. Ick. I dunno, maybe it's a good thing.
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Angel-
Yeah, I hear you. There are all kinds of relationships in the world- but I meant the only healthy kind of sex life is one in which both parties feel safe and respected. I implied legit when I said "true"- but I really meant that an equal relationship is the best kind.
"To alcohol! The cause of and solution to all of life's problems!"-
This guy can be number 2 douchebag next to Dimitri:
http://drama-duchess.blogspot.com/2006/07/looking-for-love-in-all-wrong-...
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thayly5:
That is no BDSM lifestyle. True BDSM (especially Dom/sub relationships) have an interesting power dynamic. The sub acts as if the Dom has all of he control, but really, it is the sub who has the control (safe words, what is done, the stuff that is done to the sub the sub actually wants do to their own sexual proclivities). That is the only way to have a BDSM style relationship that is safe and healthy-
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I believe you are right about that last part. But there are many people trying it in many different ways...what he describes is definitely one of them.
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I can't wait to see what happens next...now that everyone knows who he is.
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Okay, islandgirl and Mrs. Kravitz, when you are done castrating this sick fucker with your rusty gardening implements, I will anally violate him with a chainsaw. Then we can tie him to an anthill, slathered in honey, in the desert at high noon.
Too bad Jeffrey Dahmer's dead. We could introduce them.
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I think it would be interesting if old people got anti-Alzheimer's disease where they slowly began to recover other people's lost memories. - George Carlin
Clarisse et al-
That was really f-ing creepy. That is one crazed, mysogynistic pig, a man afraid of women. Who needs submission and mind control- who wants it? Wouldn't it be better if you improved yourself to be more attractive to the opposite sex (or same sex) so that they liked you even when fuly in control of their own mind? Ugh.
That is no BDSM lifestyle. True BDSM (especially Dom/sub relationships) have an interesting power dynamic. The sub acts as if the Dom has all of he control, but really, it is the sub who has the control (safe words, what is done, the stuff that is done to the sub the sub actually wants do to their own sexual proclivities). That is the only way to have a BDSM style relationship that is safe and healthy- it is more about truly dedicated role playing (and I mean dedicated) than an actual lack of love, feelings, respect.....
"To alcohol! The cause of and solution to all of life's problems!"-
Submitted by ---------- on June 27, 2008 - 7:45pm.
http://blog.mattyu.ca/post/40106926/radio-interview-with-dimitri-the-lov...
it's TOTALLY the guy! same voice, same long distance thing... grosssssss
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His M.O. is most likely picking up women in different cities. A long distance relaionship makes him feel like he's in control.
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Submitted by Migraineuse: "Chaps are assless by definition. If they weren't, they'd be PANTS."
Toronto! On Dlisted! cool.
You might be interested in this:
There's a music festival in Toronto every year called Picnic - these online ads are making the rounds for it...pretty funny campaign:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mUwpAR-uNBM
I think its him- I listened to some of a radio interview thats posted on Dmitri the Lover's web site, and the voice sounds very similar to the voicemail voice. Also, the web site says something about a movie Dmitri is making, and he mentions working on a screenplay in the voicemail. I'm a douche detective!
Submitted by Tigerlilly on June 27, 2008 - 7:57pm.
Can't we come up with a non-creepy third sex??? Is that too much to ask?
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It's PAAAT!! :)
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Ack! Now you're sending me back to my team! I SAID NON-CREEPY! Oh, and I soo have a near-Pat in my neighborhood. She's a she...I think...but I can't look her directly in the eye, not because her gender is in question (I don't give a shit about that, really), but because she gives off that creepy Pat vibe...Ewwww...
Ok, maybe the 3rd gender is not so much a good idea...I mean, how do you make him...her...it? non-creepy?
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Submitted by Tigerlilly on June 28, 2008 - 7:57am.
True dat. That's what keeps me with my team. I could never be a lesbian because I truly hate women, but, at the same time, even I have to second guess my team with douchebags like that. Can't we come up with a non-creepy third sex??? Is that too much to ask?
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I hear, ya. Here's what I think: assholes come in every shape, gender, ethnicity, country, age, you name it. Thing is, the same applies to nice people. That's what makes the search to damn hard, but hey, I say you gotta keep on trying.
Anyhoo, I disagree this asshole's dangerous. The truly dangerous ones are QUIET.
He's just a little cretin with a microscope dick and an inflated ego, that's all. Soon enough he will meet some batshit crazy woman, Naomi Campbell style, who will give him a little lesson.
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Submitted by Tigerlilly on June 27, 2008 - 7:57pm.
Can't we come up with a non-creepy third sex??? Is that too much to ask?
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WRY_t6GEOB4
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Submitted by Fucking_Classy on June 27, 2008 - 6:51pm.
Submitted by Tigerlilly on June 28, 2008 - 7:49am.
And this my friends, other than a shot or two of in vitro testosterone is why we have lesbians. Ugh, douches like this make me want to switch teams...
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Women can be just as douchey.
Trust.
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True dat. That's what keeps me with my team. I could never be a lesbian because I truly hate women, but, at the same time, even I have to second guess my team with douchebags like that. Can't we come up with a non-creepy third sex??? Is that too much to ask?
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Sorry, Roger, you are tiger now...
Submitted by Tigerlilly on June 28, 2008 - 7:49am.
And this my friends, other than a shot or two of in vitro testosterone is why we have lesbians. Ugh, douches like this make me want to switch teams...
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Women can be just as douchey.
Trust.
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"Our kind must never sit in the audience. Our kind must perform and run the show, or the others will run us."
And this my friends, other than a shot or two of in vitro testosterone is why we have lesbians. Ugh, douches like this make me want to switch teams...
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Sorry, Roger, you are tiger now...
http://blog.mattyu.ca/post/40106926/radio-interview-with-dimitri-the-lov...
it's TOTALLY the guy! same voice, same long distance thing... grosssssss
Submitted by islandgirl on June 27, 2008 - 4:06pm.
That fucker needs castrating.
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Near the end, "Sir, you kill my children with this price."
Submitted by BRADIFUL BITCH on June 27, 2008 - 5:50pm.
angel_i on June 27, 2008 - 6:45pm
Oh, well, I watch way too many profiling/crime shows.
There was this other dude that advertised he was in that life style and wound up murdering several women.
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It's true, tho. Guys like that are in serious danger of causing damage to people...physical AND emotional.
And the other thing too - just like your guy; the only reason guys like this don't get charged is because women who degrade themselves often find it really hard to talk about it afterwards. They'd have to put up with a lot of "dumb whore" talk and they're already hurt, you know?
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idiots drive me loco on June 27, 2008 - 6:50pm.
sweet lord, I may need to book a flight to Tronto just so I can kick this guy in the junk. Seriously, I have NEVER wanted to wail on someone's crotch like that before. I weep for the future.
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I totally agree. That fucker needs castrating.
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oh great! I friend requested the wrong douche!