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Submitted by parissucksliterally on June 4, 2008 - 11:26am.
Or mom's feeling that he's all she has left, so she can't punish him?
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Sheeps, another good point....

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I've seen a similar situation whereby the parents were (understandably) preoccupied with the other child's illness to the point where the 'healthy' child was virtually ignored.
Now the parents are doing a 180, trying to enforce discipline, and the healthy child deeply resents it.

Re. being on TV, I think these people are on Dr. Phil because they feel that he can provide a 'cure all' at no cost. Unfortunately, this family looks like they will require years of therapy, not hours.

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I'm sort of shy, and I'm not much of a talker, but if you poke me I'll probably rustle up a sentence or two.

I relate ISMU. My parents were very angry and my brother and I were spanked out of anger all the time. When my oldest gets out of hand and I get angry I have to remove myself from the situation and remind myself that she is young. She has to be taught good behavior. The last time I checked, hitting isn't good behavior. That's my two cents anyway.

*hugs to ISMU* preggo hormones are the pits

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jussayin,
Oh trust me, i have that side too! That's why A) i didn't have kids and B) i work very hard to stay calm. I'm afraid once that monster is out of the cage, she ain't going back in, you know!

Missy,
Right, my Mom was slap happy, but my Dad was Grade A!

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Or mom's feeling that he's all she has left, so she can't punish him?
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Sheeps, another good point....

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PSL -- I'm with you on the dirty-laundry airing. Have these folks never heard of discretion?

However, I think a lot of them sign up for Dr. Phil and other shows for 1) sympathy; 2) free counseling (a lot of insurance companies don't cover therapy) and 3) they're attention hos. I don't think Andy Warhol could have envisioned just how true his "15 minutes of fame" theory would become.

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"If I punched every bitch who called me fat, it would be dead bitches all up and down the highway."

Submitted by missy on June 4, 2008 - 9:21am.
Frito - HAHAHAHHAAA NICE

I remember a few years ago a flight attendant was charged with child endangerment when she put xanax in the kids soda or some shit to get him to shut up!!
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Fucking funny! I was on that shit a few weeks ago so that I could undergo a medical procedure and it fucked me up royally. The doctor gave it to me so that I would calm the fuck down during the procedure (spinal tap big fuckin' needles bother me, man) I seriously cannot remember jack shit from the rest of that week!

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Geez, Banana shut your friggin' gob, okay?

Cissy- when you put it that way, it makes me feel sorry for the kid. That isn't really an excuse for the bad behavior, but I think I can relate.

That aint hood rat stuff. Every good HR knows that their mother is their God. No one disrespects mamma. That's grounds for swift and violent cappin'.

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Its the hormones ;)
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Frito - HAHAHAHHAAA NICE

I remember a few years ago a flight attendant was charged with child endangerment when she put xanax in the kids soda or some shit to get him to shut up!!
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missy- Maybe it's the preggo hormones, but you have me in tears. Thanks- to all of you lovelies.

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I hate you all, your mom's a whore.

Medication, medication, medication. That's what this kid needs. Mash up some tranquilizers in his PB&J. He's probably so much nicer when his piggy little ass is asleep.
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Geez, Banana shut your friggin' gob, okay?

Submitted by ISprainedMyUvula on June 4, 2008 - 11:04am.
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That's a good idea - I'll have to keep that in mind for future reference.

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"Tact is just not saying true stuff - I'll pass"

Normally I'd be in the "slap this kid down ASAP" category, but the death of a child wreaks havoc on a family. I think the kid is acting out because he was neglected during his sister's illness and now has no sane way to deal with her death. The mother is probably shell-shocked all around. They all need a boatload of help.

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"If I punched every bitch who called me fat, it would be dead bitches all up and down the highway."

ISMU - Im from an italian family and there was a ton on anger, yelling, throwing gravy boats out of windows on thanksgiving, you know... my parents were pretty fucked up, but they tried, and they loved me. I came out ok :)

I think as long as you sincerely try your best and truly and unselfishly love your children, thats all any parent can do.

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Submitted by parissucksliterally on June 4, 2008 - 8:16am.
this kid has to live with his Mom subconsciously punishing him for being the "survivor"..

Or mom's feeling that he's all she has left, so she can't punish him?

watch the full version LOL!
"you are not the complete boss of me"

but truthfully, poor family, they have some serious communication issues. I do remember feeling that way as a child, being angry and not being nice to my moms, and yelling at her and throwing things. I was mean like this kid and my moms was probably scared of me too. And somehow she didn't beat on eme, but she did call the po po one time (she actually walked up to the station and got an officer to come to the house and to talk to me).

I don't even really know why I was always so angry! Anyway just seeing it from the kid's POV, but the mom is acting kinda shady here like she hasn't popped that kid....

This is why I never wanted kids, though, and I tell my nephew to watch himself, he got that same smart mouth and temper like I had...LOL, plus he has ADHD so when you try to be nice and polite it doesn't work for him, he doesn't really comprehend when you try to explain things rationally, but for some reason he respects the damn belt for a minute.

I think if my moms had put it on me a few timeswell thank God, but I do have some anger issues, not like Naomi Campbell, but sometimes I could see myself throwing phones at some folk...when you see your child trying to be a bully type individual, you have to nip that shit somehow! Or other people will do it for you by ostracizing your child...

But I would have been at WalMart instead of Clarisse there is a good chance that I could have flipped, went to the wooden bat aisle, came back, and tore Big Daddy up. I work really hard trying to keep that type of temper under control! I be wanting to go buckwild on stupid people sometimes!!

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yeah, I said it! what?

Seriously Sheeps....this kid has to live with his Mom subconsciously punishing him for being the "survivor".....

But, he still needs his ass straightened out.
People who air out their dirty laundry on TV are so gross.

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Sensimina,
Yeah, sometimes the worst thing for a child is his/her parents.

Uvula, Kris, M.E. The rest of you great mom's...
Bless you!

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Submitted by cissy on June 4, 2008 - 8:05am.
Do we really need to trash this kid?

Also good points. I bet the mom is terribly guilt-ridden about the girl who died and probably projects everything onto the boy who's alive.

missy- I'm trying to figure it all out, bunny. I had an angry mom and I find myself having to back off and ask myself if what I'm blowing my top over is really that big of a deal. But I think that the aftermath of a lesson that truly teaches cause and effect (you wouldn't clean up and showed me you don't care about your toys so they were throw away) lasts way longer than a spanking.

*sigh*

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Is that bitch on qualuudes??? Who in the hell would allow their fat fuck of a kid talk to them like that, point his fat little finger in their face and slap them?

That kids ass would have been so sore from the moment he raised his GD voice at me that he wouldn't be able to sit for a GD week.

This kid should have had his ass beat IMMEDIATELY. Yeah, it sucks that his sister died, but this is a result of BAD PARENTING. Obviously the kid NEVER had any consequences for his behavior. I mean, he didn't even think TWICE about slapping his mom. Next thing you know, he'll be straight up mudering her ass. Seriously. My mom would've broke my shit off if I EVER even RAISED my HAND to her without contact.

That being said, Michael K, you crack me up. "...some Matrix shit..." Hee!

Submitted by ISprainedMyUvula on June 4, 2008 - 10:04am.

aw, I bet youre a good mama uvula :)

cissy - youre right

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I have four children ages 3-8, and people are always amazed at how well behaved they are and wonder how I get them to act like that. The funny thing is, they just act the way ALL kids should act; with manners and respect. It's sad that my children are no longer seen as the "norm". And, although I'm not against spanking, I don't do it very often.

Even my kids, as young as they are, see a kid acting out and say, "Mommy, he needs a time out. He's being a bad kid"~lol.

In defense of this kid, I saw this show and I didn't know who to believe, the kid or the mom. His mother has crazy written all over her.

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Leave Britney alone. She is my favorite. She will still rocks.

You don't really need to spank kids as long as you have "the look". My parents, esp mother, had "the look" - you know the one that sent chills down your spine. I'm a grown woman and to this day if I say something wrong she gives me "the look" and I know not to utter another word. Of course, we always knew that "the look" was followed by the belt.

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Do we really need to trash this kid? I get ripping on celebs and morons, but this is a 10 year old kid. I saw the episode this vid is from, and the clip here was edited to make the kid look like a sociopath... instead he is frustrated and scared and sick of what he feels is physical and verbal abuse by his cold, bitter mother who is so wrapped up in the child that died that she treats the one she has left like crap. She drags him on national tv to tell the world how bad he is, all the while acting like the one who is suffering here and wearing the necklace with the picture of the dead kid like she is some kind of martyr. This clip is from a segment where Dr. Phil asked the parents and kids to tell each other what frustrates them and the mom just rips into the kid and never gives him a chance to speak... when he does, she cuts him off and blows off what he has to say. A good therapist would have cut it off and forced mom to listen, but since Dr. Phil is a hack, he let it continue and now the kid is fuel for public ridicule. Nice job, doc. I'm sure the kid will turn out completely normal now.

Submitted by QueenCharisma on June 4, 2008 - 9:55am.
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My five year old refused to clean up his room and we got a trash bag and had him pick up every single thing and put it in the bag, then drag that thing to the curb. We went back and pilfered the "good" stuff that shouldn't have been thrown away and put them up in a closet. But you can bet that kid was 10 times more upset that we threw away his stuff than he would have ever been getting a whomp on the butt. I think a lot of it has to do with figuring out what's important to kids. Punishing them by taking away things they could live without anyway doesn't do anything. But pay attention to what their favorite toy is and put that thing on top of the refrigerator for a week (in plain sight) after a good meltdown and they're reminded daily of what they did to get that thing put in toy time out.

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I hate you all, your mom's a whore.

All this bullshit of the kids becomming the parents and treating elders like dogshit is because of douchebags like Dr Phil trying to make parents and kids on the same level. Making them into a "friendsahip" instead of parent/child relationship.

Kids today need a good kick in the ass or beating to straighten their little spoiled asses out!!!

I am tired of hearing little pricks whining that they need respect. RESPECT IS EARNED CHILDREN!!!

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Submitted by MadameLollipop on June 4, 2008 - 10:55am.

I'm glad it's not just me! I wondered if I was the only one that didn't like other kids-but could love your own so much.
I even have trouble dealing with my niece and nephew sometimes.

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God be with you, dumbass.

Sheeps, hahahha...thanks! It feels good to know you have such faith in me and my big mouth....

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Please forgive me for my distance, pain in evident in my existence; please forgive me for my distance, shame is manifest in my resistance to your love
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More evidence that we are on our way to Idiocracy! All the smart people are going to stop procreating!

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thanks anyway, pantychrist

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Submitted by Little miss on June 4, 2008 - 9:38am.
Bad parents deserve bad children.
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yeah but those bad children grow up to be assholes that you and I have to deal with every day!! Like BeigeBaby and HeartAneglina!
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Well, what can I say to this? A bit of retoric: we need assholes in our society to keep the world in balance. There's no good without bad and there's no white w/o black.

Btw, what has happened to Beige Baby? I missed the whole drama.

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It makes me so mad to see kids like that! I just want to go drill sargeant on their asses and pick them up and pin them to the wall while screaming in their faces. My BF has a 5 YO sister, and I don't think his mom really appreciates it when I yell at her, but oh well! Just because you're too tired to raise your youngest kid, doesn't mean I should do it! Yeesh. But luckily, she's not really that bad, just a typical sometimes hyper, sometimes cranky kid. She is a spoiled little brat, though.

Submitted by ISprainedMyUvula on June 4, 2008 - 10:51am.

My mom hit us out of anger and usually for things that weren't spank-worthy.
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Same here. That's why I'm hesitant to hit my kids when I have them - I'm terrified that cycle of abuse is going to continue. However, I have no problem publicly humiliating a badass kid by standing them on a corner all day with a sign detailing what bad behavior they displayed or just leaving them on the side of the road Bree Van De Kamp style. :)

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Oh, SquashPosh. Squeeze out them pinkies whenever you feel up to dropping a clutch of eggs. I know quite a few young couples who are raising the most well-behaved, intelligent, beautifully-mannered kids ever (at least they act that way when company is around). I think the secret is to have some damn sense, treat your children like they're capable of having some damn sense, and I think most importantly, GIVE THEM LIL BITCHES BOUNDARIES. Children crave boundaries the way La Winehouse craves, um, EYELINER. (liquid eyeliner, that is. applied orally.) Brats like this little turkeywaddle here grow into monsters because their parents don't set down limits, so of COURSE the little darling is going to be all over the place, cloverfielding it up for the whole world to see. Wait a minute. Why am I issuing parental advice? I'm sitting here smoking the inside of a Vick's Inhaler and sipping a snifter of Hot Damn! right now. Ignore all of this. Raise brats or stay bereft.

Submitted by CeeCee on June 4, 2008 - 9:46am.

"..."Please don't hit me, Mom!" OMFG! (I would never hit her.)"
LOL!! i'm sorry but that made me laugh. What a brat LOOOOLL.

I'd be a really bad parent because i'd bust out laughing if i heard thaT shit coming out of my kid's mouth.

Submitted by Clarisse on June 4, 2008 - 7:46am.
PSL, I REALLLLY wanted to go off, but he had me by about 200 lbs...

Same for PSL, but not a problem. My money's on her.

My mom hit us out of anger and usually for things that weren't spank-worthy. My kids both get taps to know I mean business when they are past the point of reasoning and talking and still won't shape up. If it's three times that they've been told/asked to do (or not do something) and they still aren't getting it, a turn and a tap and that ends the problem.

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I feel really really sorry for these people. The desperation on that kid's face is just ... This is all too sad.

To the woman who posted about the kids at the supermarket with the Dr. Pepper and the candy (Clarisse i think), girl i feel for you but more for those kids, obviously their dad & mom suck at life.

Thanks for you input MONKEYPOX. I'm going to be pondering on this all night. Must get hubby's opinion too. This kid is the reason we keep waiting and waiting to have kids.

My sister and my Mom got into some good brawls...my sis pushed my Mom down a few stairs once.....and she got her mouth washed out with soap a lot........

I am three years younger, so I knew to keep my mouth shut, and give them the finger from behind the closed door to my room.

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Please forgive me for my distance, pain in evident in my existence; please forgive me for my distance, shame is manifest in my resistance to your love
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God, I feel so bad for that mom. When my daughter was about six or seven she had some major behavioral problems. She was such a drama queen. I took her to Disneyland and we were on that little train that goes around the park. I told her she needed to keep it together or we'd have to go back to the hotel. So she cowers away from me and screams, "Please don't hit me, Mom!" OMFG! (I would never hit her.) So this lady with her kids sitting across from us scowled at me until we got off, I was mortified. I said, "She's just tired, heh" and she just sat there staring daggers at me.

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Actually Target (said with a french accent!)

PSL,
I REALLLLY wanted to go off, but he had me by about 200 lbs...

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Submitted by peaches on June 4, 2008 - 10:39am.
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The thing is, he didn't even cry when his sister died - that leads me to believe he's a sociopath. The way he speaks to his mother also points to him having a mental problem. He's way too quick to lie and say outright hateful things to people to be normal. Sociopaths are known for aggressive behavior and the inability to properly function/interact with other people - his parents need to get him examined by a shrink immediately. They're raising a future Dahmer.

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Submitted by Squash Posh on June 4, 2008 - 9:41am

ITA...my mom and dad spanked both my sister and I wehn we misbehaved but I never thought that was abuse. What is with this insanse sense of entitlement in kids nowadays? I still believe "spare the rod, spoil the child" to be very true. Time out does not work!
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What PSL said. That kid is to old to be changed. He's actually an intelligent kid, and he has figured out that his mother is a frigging moron and he has zero respect for her and there's not much she can do about it now. And Dr. Phil is going to be zero help.

You have to lay down the law when they are going through their terrible twos. That's your window.

Hehehe Sheeps, go for it...good dream

I cannot believe some parents...

years ago, I was in the market, and a boy asked his Mom what 10 plus 15 was. She responded, "If you don;t know that, then you shouldn't be in the 2nd grade". Nice.

Then you have the kids who throw fits, and the parents cave.....isn't there a happy medium? I seem to know where it is when I raise kids- why can't other people? Morons.

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Please forgive me for my distance, pain in evident in my existence; please forgive me for my distance, shame is manifest in my resistance to your love
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