Henry Hopper Might Be The New Roman Polanski

Henry Hopper, the 21-year-old son of the late Dennis Hopper, has been slapped with a lawsuit from the mother of a 16-year-old girl who claims that he drugged and repeatedly raped her daughter at his house in Venice, CA.

According to TMZ, the legal papers filed in L.A. claim that Henry met the unidentified girl, known as "Jan Doe" in the lawsuit, (Jan Doe sounds like the name of the awkward middle sister of the Doe sisters) through a mutual friend in February of last year. They regularly talked to each other on Facebook and after a few months, he started figuratively leaving a trail of booze and the bad shit from her front door to the front door of his house in Venice. Henry promised to give Jan Doe all the drugs and sweet nectar she wanted if she came over. When a then 15-year-old Jan Doe went to his house, he gave her drugs and booze, and waited until she was all kinds of messed up before he "engaged in sexually offensive conduct with her." Jan Doe alleges that Henry forced her to engage in sexual intercourse and "oral copulation and sodomy."

The lawsuit goes on to say that because Henry repeatedly preyed on Jan Doe's naive "vulnerability," she has suffered mentally and emotionally and has been treated by several mental health care professionals. Jan Doe's mom is suing for unspecified damages.

EEEEEEEEEEK! Welp, here's a story that should come with a fluffy kitten hugging a vodka bottle. So many questions and I don't even know what to say except that Henry Hopper kind of has rapey hair (whatever that means). You might be wondering if Jan Doe's mom ever went to the police to file charges against Henry Hopper for allegedly teen raping her daughter. TMZ doesn't know this yet. You might also be wondering why I haven't posted an adorable palate cleanser yet? Good question. Let me fix that:

Shit, that made things worse, right?

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Submitted by Stoney on Wed, 08/01/2012 - 11:31pm.

He's got rape face for sure.
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Submitted by Restmom on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 11:27pm.

Awful if true.To date the mother has filed no police report.Went straight to the lawyers.Curious.

Submitted by Gardening Girl on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 11:21pm.

Whaaaaa! Hotmami I hope you got help for the demons that come with such a traumatic and evil event. That is just rotten!

Hope the fucker ends up rotting in hell.

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Submitted by WithinReason... on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 11:20pm.

Aww Hotmami, that's awful. :(

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Submitted by boredasfuckyo on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 8:03pm.

I once had pet bantam chickens who loved car rides and coca cola...So I'mma keep my shade silent on this one. Lmao!

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Lol! Did you have them trained and everything? I'm just baffled by having a pet possum, it's the same as having a raccoon pretty much. They'll eat whatever you have lying around and they hiss at you if you get too close (feral ones, anyway, and they usually have rabies).

Lindsay Lohan's costar's nalgas flew her so close to the sun that they both exploded into stardust that still lights up Hollywood.

Submitted by Hotmami on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 9:34pm.

I was raped at 19. My family has no idea.

This girl's mother needs to get her head out of her fucking ass. Stat.

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Submitted by gossiplover on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 7:03pm.

I wish I knew how to respond to any of you personally, but thanks all. You don't know how good you've made me feel. I am from Jamaica, and my mom was in the US trying to make a better way for us, my dad worked and came home late. They never knew, if they did they would've killed him. There is so much shame, I am from a culture where a woman who is raped is ridiculed. If i told anyone then or anyone now they will say, "you wanted it, you were paid!" SO much shame, I am now 32, I am in a 10 yr relationship, he has been trying to marry me and have kids but I told him I am not that kinda gurl. The truth is I can't marry him with this secret, and because of the incident I dont want kids ever! Thank God he has a daughter already! Thank you, thank you all, there is so much shame, so much shame.

Submitted by boredasfuckyo on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 6:33pm.

Submitted by skabazzle on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 7:38pm.
Damn, that's horrible for this poor girl. Sidenote: Who the hell keeps a pet possum?!
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I once had pet bantam chickens who loved car rides and coca cola...So I'mma keep my shade silent on this one. Lmao!
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Submitted by Snarf on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 7:38pm.
So much for innocent until proven guilty.

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I guess I should have said "if it's true." I know you don't mean ME specifically because everyone has already lowered the hammer on this guy. I was mainly focusing on the shitty job the mother of this chick is doing, and how fucked up and suspect her focus was. I still stand by the fact that being Dennis Hopper's kid isn't doing him any favors.

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Submitted by gossiplover on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 3:37pm.

(((((((big hugs)))))))) I'm so sorry you went through that and I'm glad you now realize it wasn't your fault at all. You were just a little girl. He's a POS and karma will catch up with him, in this life of the next. I cried reading your post, too.

I had a male relative get inappropriate with me once and it was nowhere near as severe as what you went through, but I carried so much shame and guilt like I did something to cause it. So I can't even imagine what you have gone through. I hope you're in a good place now and I send good vibes to you (and all other Dlisters and lurkers who went through something similar).

Submitted by skabazzle on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 6:11pm.

Gossiplover, I just read your story - Hugs and support to you!!! Dlisted is a great place to get stuff like that off your chest that's difficult to talk about in person.

Lindsay Lohan's costar's nalgas flew her so close to the sun that they both exploded into stardust that still lights up Hollywood.

Submitted by skabazzle on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 6:08pm.

Damn, that's horrible for this poor girl. Sidenote: Who the hell keeps a pet possum?! That's the cutest possum I've ever seen; every one I've seen up close basically looks like a giant rat that will hiss at you.

Lindsay Lohan's costar's nalgas flew her so close to the sun that they both exploded into stardust that still lights up Hollywood.

Submitted by Snarf on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 6:08pm.

So much for innocent until proven guilty.

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Submitted by Dion flowerboy on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 5:57pm.

Go figure if this kid was getting tips about the ladies by such creatures as Daddy Dennis and "Uncle" Jack Nicholson. He has creep in his DNA.

Submitted by idiots drive me loco on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 5:57pm.

fuck everyone :(

I never doubted the stats that 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men will be assaulted. I'm just sorry so many DListers are part of the dubious date rape club. Hugs to all my fellow members, and I'm glad to see us being open. We didn't commit the crime..THEY DID.

Bravo to TexnDoc and whoever posted, we should focus on teaching boys to stop versus having to teach women not to drink, not to dress a certain way

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Submitted by Naughychimp on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 6:45pm.
Hugs to you Dlisters who were hurt by scum-bags. My heart aches for you and I hope we, as a society, can do a better job of protecting our boys and girls from evil perverts.
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Reading the comments on here, I can't believe how many people seem to be in the same boat as me with such unsavoury experiences with disgusting pig-men. At least it helps to feel *slightly* less alone.

Submitted by Who Datt on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 5:30pm.

I can remember Dennis running around after Henry on some morning show way back in the mid 90's. Henry was in some play area going "watch me daddy" and poor Dennis was absolutely exhausted trying to keep up with a kid running at Mach 6 as well as doing a live remote interview. I'm glad he isn't around now to see all this alleged f'ery involving his son.

Submitted by WithinReason... on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 5:22pm.

mefunigirl, as a Mom you are so on the ball! HAHA When so many relatives know the kid's moves, lolol she can't get away with ANY CRAP! She's lucky to have that support system. Some are not so lucky. Great job! ☺

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Submitted by P.T.Bull on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 5:19pm.

In case it hasn't been mentioned, but the girl polanski raped was 13 years old at the time. I see his wicki site calls it 'sexual abuse', but it was rape.

Anybody who hangs out with the spawn of dennis hopper is asking for trouble, that guy made robert blake seem like a yoga instructor.

No criminal complaint? Mom wants to cash in on her daughter's rape rather than get justice for her.

Submitted by Naughychimp on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 5:15pm.

Hugs to you Dlisters who were hurt by scum-bags. My heart aches for you and I hope we, as a society, can do a better job of protecting our boys and girls from evil perverts.

But I also agree that many celebs and their families are targets of unscrupulous liars. It's easy to make up lies about someone raping your kid.

My hope is that all sexual abusers receive severe punishment but also that folks who make false accusations -- which also serve to divert attention and resources from the millions of true victims! -- have the figurative book thrown at them.

Again, nuthin' but love, respect and support for those of you who have been hurt by abusers.

Submitted by boredasfuckyo on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 5:03pm.

Submitted by mefunigirl on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 6:12pm.

THIS!!!
you have to be willing to hear stuff you really dont want to knowwww (and inside your head you are saying please dont say it, please dont say it) and when they do, you "discuss" the advantages or disadvantages of those things, ask them why.
believe it or not, when given all the facts and discussions most teens will make the right choices.

most rebel because they are slammed just for having those thoughts.
my daughter doesnt know I have all these eys on her, and she's done some stuff she doesnt know I know, and thats ok because she has to have SOME freedom, but the info makes me keep an ear to the ground making sure it doesnt progress from there.
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Exactly! I talked to her about everything under the sun! And she never gave me a side-eye for it, even though I asked some pretty wild shit!But I think even though she may have not been completely comfortable with all my questions(how do you feel about blow jobs? her reaction was hilarious btw), she was still relieved that I was ASKING HER, instead of others who could have potentially led me to some dangerous conclusions, and she knew I would look to her for guidance and protection.

You seem like a very hands on mom, your kids are very lucky to have you. Many, many, many kids do not have these days. And alot of kids surprisingly WANT structure.
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Submitted by suckitpigs on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 5:03pm.

No idea if anyone has mentioned this or not yet- not going to shift through the +100 comments- but what about this girl's parents.

I put the blame on the parents as well. I wouldn't be surprised if this woman let her kid hang out with this 21 yr because he's the son of a famous movie star. All common sense goes out the window for some people when they realize how "close" to "fame" they are.

Just because someone is 16 doesn't always mean they are naive. You have a lot of 16 year old girls that know exactly what the fuck they're doing and when caught regress, regret and blame others. I went to highschool with one of the most manipulative calculating 16 yr old slut I had ever seen. She was no innocent girl. She got involved with a 30+ yr man, lied to him initially about her age, continued to see him. And when she got caught in her lies , the guy decided to no longer continue the relationship, she feigned pregnancy and then feigned being raped. The guy is now in jail because the girl's dad was a cop.

I'm just saying not all 16 year olds are innocent. And I wouldn't be surprised that the parents of this chick prolly encouraged hanging out with someone rich and famous.

Submitted by Evil_Cupcake on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 4:53pm.

Submitted by gossiplover on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 3:37pm.

(((((((hugs)))))))))))

I really suggest you at least going to a therapist to process this all, and know that you were an innocent child, and certainly NOT responsible for anything. I also think you should see about pressing charges against this man. I think it would go a long way to helping you cope with what this sick creature did to you. I am not sure what type of relationship you have with your parents, but it is time for you to not carry this alone, and to open people's eyes as to what type of man this is.

Thank you for being brave and sharing this and I hope you can find peace for yourself one day soon.

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Submitted by MissJaneTexas on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 6:06pm.
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Her/His statement was still invalid and made no sense to me, because they made it seem like it would have been okay, if it was consented too ONLY if the boy was around this girl's age, which would have been FUCKING 15! That doesn't make it any better! It doesn't make it any less sex because two underage people do it. If I was a parent and found out that my 15 year old had consential sex with someone her own age. I wouldn't be like WHEEEEEEEEEW atleast it was another 15 year old! I'D BE PISSED MY 15 YEAR OLD WAS FUCKIN! PERIOD!Sex is sex. It doesn't negate or make all the same consequences as someone older doing it go away! All potential consequences STILL APPLY!~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~**~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~
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Submitted by SANS FARDS on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 4:49pm.

sorry, wrong thread....posting the link in OP

Submitted by mefunigirl on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 4:42pm.

Submitted by boredasfuckyo on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 5:41pm.
So to me you have to make sure that a clear line of communication is open and avalible to them, and use said info to your advantage to keep an eye on their asses.You also have to be realistic. You have to use that little bit of freedom you give them to your advantage!You can be protective, you just have to know how.

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Submitted by MissJaneTexas on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 4:36pm.

Submitted by boredasfuckyo on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 6:03pm.

I think what he is saying is that it doesn't matter if it was consensual or not - she is still underage and it is still rape. If he was underage too then the question of consent would matter - here it doesn't.

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Submitted by TexnDoc on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 12:46pm.
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Was she passed out completely? Did she say no? Did she willingly go along with it then later have regrets?">

Are you kidding? She could meet him wearing nothing but a smile with her ankles around her head and it does not matter. The only person she could legally have sex with is a dude under 18.
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Regardless of being 18 or under 18, it's still sex. All the potential implications still apply. If homeboy was under 18 and did this, it wouldn't make it any less rape-y...So Idk what kind of point you were trying to make but wtf?
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Submitted by kissingassandcu... on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 4:08pm.

Gossip lover,

How old are you now? Can you tell someone what happened. The statute of limitations is much longer than it used to be on sexual abuse and that is SEXUAL ABUSE. He needs to be turned into the police. It's not too late. You can call the FBI since he is overseas and I would suggest to tell your family or at least someone in your family.
These men rely on your fear and your secrecy. This man might have done this to other relatives and will most likely still do this to other children he has access too.
I hope you will get counseling if you havent already. Your mind can be much clearer and you can feel better but it will take some time.
Please turn this guy in, Please. No excuses. He is a predator and will do this again. He should BE IN JAIL without a question or a doubt. You are stronger than he is. You are in the right on this. I don't care that you were 16, I don't care if you "let him" of if he paid you or anything else. This was NOT YOUR FAULT. You are 100% innocent. He needs to be prosecuted. I can only imagine how many other people he has done this too. If you speak out others will too and you might actually have a good case against him.
Please do it. Please. At the very least let the FBI know so they can have him on their radar.

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Submitted by Cloverscout on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 4:29pm.

Kissingass is totally right.

My heart goes out to gossiplover, because this was clearly not her fault. No 12 year is equipped to deal with this kind of manipulation by a full grown adult. It does not matter what he gave you, or what you accepted. You never should have been put in that situation. It was brave and smart of you to open up, even if it's only here, and anonymously. You need to stop carrying this burden. It was never your fault, not even for one second.
I was going to stop there, but after reading kissingass, I have to agree- he will most likely try this with another child. You can stop him. I hope with all my heart that you find the strength to speak out.

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Submitted by Gardening Girl on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 4:53pm.
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I think parents don't know how to be protective, and so-called over protection in that manner alot of the times backfire and it's even easier for kids to get away with shit!

In my case I knew if I had any issues or questions about anything! I could talk to her. Honestly, she made it to where, I talked to her about shit before I talked to anyone my own age. I preferred being around her over my own friends. I truly felt like she understood me. And not alot of teens can say that about the adults who are suppose to be in charge of them.

As far as the booze and whatnot goes, A friend of mine was discussing her then teenage son (grown man now) and she allowed him to have his parties at her house with liquor, because she rathered it be under her roof than say behind her back in a bar somewhere where they could potentially get killed or hurt as a result, she also made it very clearly that if they had their party they would clean it up the next day. And they did, hungover and tired cleaning up the messed they made the night before taking out the trash!

So to me you have to make sure that a clear line of communication is open and avalible to them, and use said info to your advantage to keep an eye on their asses.You also have to be realistic. You have to use that little bit of freedom you give them to your advantage!You can be protective, you just have to know how.

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Submitted by Whatever on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 3:57pm.

Cute little guy eating the strawberry! :)

Submitted by BabyJane on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 3:52pm.

Looks like this apple didn't fall far from the tree.

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Submitted by mefunigirl on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 3:39pm.

Not gonna blame the mom, not gonna blame the girl, and the jury's out on him.
But I will say, this is why I am ALL UP in my 15 yr old daughters business.

I know the tricks we pull, and as soon as she starts driving, there will be a gps on her car that I can track, I dont give a dam what anyone thinks..but there wont be any of that oh, Im at so-and-so's when shes really somewhere else, and I call and verify every sleepover. She also has 3 older brothers and 12 older cousins in this town that know her every move. AND we have a very open relationship where we discuss men and their sneaky ass ways/lies at this age

Shit may still happen, cause thats life, but it wont be cause I was sleeping on the job.
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Submitted by Gardening Girl on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 3:23pm.

Glad you had an abuelita you could talk to. I had really really over protective parents and I guess that's is how I rebelled...Its a hard balance being a parent I see now. Weither to hold on too tight or give so much freedom. Scarey!

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Submitted by boredasfuckyo on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 3:18pm.

Submitted by Gardening Girl on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 12:18pm.
Ok regarding the booze and drugs what 15 year old doesnt do this a little?__________________________________________

I did none of that when I was 15. My abuelita would have had my ass in a vice! And I knew it! She knew where I was. I was able to talk to her about anything. She trusted me because she knew she instilled the FEAR!
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Submitted by boredasfuckyo on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 3:01pm.

Ugh! I can't with possums. I think it's the tail and beaty rat eyes.

As far as this mess goes...He's a cockstain, then again so was his pappi. But I gotta give a big ass side-eye to this mother and her daughter. She claims her kid went there for booze and drugs. And the lawsuit came to light and not the charges???Come on! Not that it justifies anything, but this bitch doesn't seem like June Clever either! More like White Oprah
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Submitted by SandwichQueen on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 3:01pm.

I'm sorry to hear that gossiplover. You are not alone. <3

Submitted by Few Words on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 3:01pm.

where the hell was her mother in all this?

i aint stickin up for this asshole but i gotta wonder why mother didnt do something when this jagoff was communicating to her kid.

you know like tell him to fuck off or imma gonna call the cops if you keep hassling my daughter.

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Submitted by gossiplover on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 3:37pm.

Holy shit, I'm sorry for what you went through. I will never understand how a male (I use that term vs "man" because no real man would do that) can treat women with such disrespect. Big bear hug to you, sweetie.
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Submitted by SANS FARDS on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 2:12pm.

gossiplover, that is absolutely horrifying. I hope that you are in a happier, healthier, and better place now.

The Dlisted familia is heavy on the snark but when it comes down to it, it's a great support network :-)

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Submitted by M.E. on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 2:10pm.

((((((((((((((gossip lover))))))))))))))))))

That was very brave of you. I am so sorry you went through that. And I am sorry you are trying to deal with it alone.

If it's more comfortable for you to talk here, to "strangers" no faces, then please! Get it out!

Submitted by gossiplover on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 2:07pm.

I need to tell someone this, and the anonymity of this thread makes me feel free to let this out. My brother in law had sex with me from the age of 12 to 16, he was like 35. The first time I didn't even have my period yet. For years I felt ashamed because he would give me money, and I would take it to buy stupid shit like candy,etc. For years I would think of myself as a stupid slut, unitl one time I was watching Oprah and she said, "A 13 yr old cannot give consent." He lives in England now, but if I see a pic. of him I will violenttly throw up, no one in my family knows. I have not told anyone, typing this with tears in my eyes! Thank You, Dlisted!

Submitted by Cloverscout on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 2:35pm.

Sweetie, a kid that age is not equipped to deal with that kind of situation. It is not your fault. Talking about this, even if anonymously, is very brave and smart of you. Victims tend to blame themselves. It is important for you to not carry this burden, and to hear that no matter what- this was not your fault. Not for one second.

Submitted by Bunny Rabbit on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 2:05pm.

Submitted by Lurker on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 2:28pm.

Most of my friends started at 12-13 with the 15-16 y.o set)

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That is just plain sad. Not even finished with puberty and already sexually active. Perhaps we aren't trafficking our children like they do in other countries, but certainly our girls aren't that much better off when it comes to sex and pressure. Really gives me the sads to think that instead of turning cartwheels in their backyards, young girls are sucking their scumbag "boyfriends" off.

Though not the case for everyone, the running theme seems to be alcohol. Not to blame the victim, but girls need to take responsibility for themselves first and foremost. Ain't no one gonna care for you but you yourself. You cannot expect some strange fuck to care about you or your well being. An ounce of prevention...

The best thing anyone can do for their daughters is to monitor who they socialize with, keep them busy with school, sports, organized activites, and don't get them acquainted with alcohol or drugs. This will require a huge sacrifice on part of the parents by setting a good example and showing how full life can be without hitting the bottle or taking drugs. If you can't make sacrifices, then don't have kids. That's what my parents did for me and I'm happy to say that I never found myself in a vulnerable situation as so many other girls have.

Submitted by RandéSleepover on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 1:35pm.

Submitted by Sweetas on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 2:27pm.

I think if the true statistics were known, people would be floored to know how common sex crimes against women are. I would say about a third to half of the women I know have been harassed, molested and/or raped, some repeatedly. I wish that was an exaggeration. It's mostly unreported and even kept completely secret, because it's so humiliating and the victim often feels a deep, crippling sense of shame. You don't want anyone to look at you that way, or wonder if you're telling the truth, or think you "brought it on yourself". I know it happens to boys and men too, and I wonder if it's less common or just they never tell anyone.

Well said. You have a deep, serious side, too, huh? :)

Submitted by Janice Second on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 1:25pm.

Okay, let's say they were having a consensual relationship... It's still wrong, yes, but if she was 15 or 16, it could be possible she lied to her mom and said that dude did all that bad shit so that she could escape trouble or judgement from her parents. Which is total bullshit.

I too, will refrain from judgement. This is one side of a story, from a person who was not a part of this situation, the girls mother.