Hot Slut Of The Day!
Sienna Miller's mentor has finally shown herself! This is 45-year-old Karen Marley, a mistress extraordinaire who gets a thrill from wrapping her husband-seeking vagina around a married man's wedding ring. I know, she would be a Rihanna fan.
In a soon-to-be British Press Award-winning article for the world-renowned literary chronicle The Mirror (only second in respectability after The Daily Mail), Karen of Richmond, North Yorkshire writes about how she's been the side piece to over 50 married men and she wouldn't have it any other way. Karen isn't a home wrecker, because she doesn't want her dude to leave his wife. She's not a gold digger, because she makes her own money and isn't looking for presents. Karen was married 11 years ago, but realized that wet humping on a married man is best when you're not the one married to his ass.
Karen isn't trying to screw around with her friends' husbands and usually trolls for taken dick on the site IllicitEncounters.com, where thousands of married men actively look for a ho to get down with in the shadows. Being the independent woman that she is, she only likes to borrow a wife's husband, because she says the husband "comes back to life" with her since his life at home is a zombie land of mundane boringness. During their dates, they don't fight about unpaid bills or their brats and they can trap themselves inside of a bubble of superficial flirting.
Karen thinks of her husband-chewing crotch muffin as an escape for married men (Fun Fact: If you keep your wedding ring on while searching Travelocity for "quick getaways," Karen's pussy will come up!) and loves their time together. But when he leaves her house, she can have her own private space back and doesn't have to deal with his crap everywhere. Here's a piece from the Gloria Steinem of jump-offs' essay on the glory of whoring around with married peen:
As a member of IllicitEncounters.com, the dating website for married people, I see men who are actively seeking affairs. These men pay £134 a month to the site to find a date, so they are definitely looking for someone on the side. If it wasn’t me, it would be one of the other hundreds of women registered on it.
These men have well and truly made the conscious decision to have an affair. And their wives should be grateful when it’s me their husbands choose. Because I am the perfect mistress. I am never going to ask them to leave their wives for me. Most mistresses do, but not me.
If I asked him to leave his wife, in every argument from then on he’d say: ‘Do you know what I gave up for you?’ I don’t ever want to be part of that. In fact, when one of my men confessed about me to his wife and told me his marriage was over, I finished our affair. I was horrified. I don’t want to steal someone else’s husband for good, just borrow him for a while.
I know how to behave as a mistress – and I don’t just mean in bed. I would never ring one of my married men at home at 2am or at the weekend because that’s their time with their family. I would never throw a hissy fit if they don’t spend Valentine’s, Easter or Christmas with me.
We both know exactly where the goalposts are. That’s the beauty of it all – we’re both open and honest with each other, which must sound ironic, considering my men are not open with their wives.
But that’s how it is.
Bitch really does have it all. Bitch has hair like a Miss Piggy wig, the sex appeal of a current day Jessica Simpson, the wardrobe of Abby Lee Miller and she's an independent woman doing it for herself (and by "it" I mean spoken for dick). You can hate on Karen all you want, but while you're reading this, she's having the time of her life while somebody's husband slides his peen between her fupa crevice. I love her, but that goes without saying since I too am a shameless slut.
That article should really be the new lyrics for Destiny Child's "Independent Woman Part 1" It's THAT independent.
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Me either on open relationships, take your lunch pail somewhere else bro...
Lol you two, my weakness is semi-sweet dark chocolate, mmm mmm and I will share it. hehehe ;)
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I don't agree with everyone saying that it must be bitchy wives who are pushing this to happen. It's actually bitchy husbands. I know a total of one bitchy wife that I can honesty say that it must be a daily chore to be married to. In every other case of every couple I know, the men are selfish and think they're entitled to fantastic treatment without reciprocating. It's been shown in several studies that the average man thinks he's smarter and better looking than he is. These men simply think they're too good to be relegated to one woman. They're not. When they stray, this is where they go.
You make a good point. Sure, I'll share my Dollar Tree no name chocolate. Reach for my Godiva and you will draw back a nub, though.
Reach for my Godiva white chocolate? You'll be lucky to leave with your arm intact.
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Submitted by Jintess on Sun, 06/10/2012 - 1:09pm.
it really depends on the chocolates, ill share toblerones but i rule out sharing milky white chocolates, something about the velvet smoothness of milky white chocolates makes me greedy, so i want it all for myself.
Amen loopy, I don't get the whole "open relationship" thing. Then again, I don't even share my chocolate.
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But why do we need all this monogamy? If you find someone you want to be with - why not? Are we (humans) the only species that force monogamy on the world? I say love 'em all.
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Don't disparage the animal community. May want to google 'animals that mate for life'. African Geese come to mind (and geese are mean motherfuckers. Ever encounter them? I think they have something when it comes to being protective of their territory. Bet they would even EAT A PIG)
Heh at the Oink earlier. This is not about weight. It's about lack of respect all the way around. I refuse to believe all men are so stupid that they should be lumped in to a 'well she's available and the wife must be a bitch so who can blame him' category.
Accountability goes both ways.
I wonder, if this were some man saying he cheats with married women, how would the comments go?
I'm w/AZ girl.. if you're going to cheat on me YOUR FUCKING LOSS - but you better fucking upgrade - and I don't mean in pounds!
Submitted by WithinReason... on Sun, 06/10/2012 - 12:52am.
yeah like i dont want to stereotype and say all gay guys can't do monogamy, but yeah in my experience in the past, when it comes to two men in a relationship, so they don't view cheating as such a big issue. I don't know why... And like if you are in gay relationship, other gays will still try to seduce you or your bf, even if they know you are hitched! lol i dunno if women see a married man and think "yeh ima go seduce him" it seems like its just men cuz they are just bigger sluts.
Same applies to Bi guys, specially the married ones, they fuck other guys behind their wives' back but they don't see it as cheating cuz its not a woman. I've known someone who used to fuck a married guy regularly, and I'm like "u are cheating! because you are the other person, im sure his wife and 2 kids dont know about you"
but the guy was telling me "no no its not cheating, he loves his family, but he is bisexual and his wife can't give him gay sex"
I gave up trying to talk to him, so i just gave him a hint, "use a condom"
but people will make up shit excuses and convince themselves that what they are doing is not wrong.
But my lesbian friends don't seem to behave the same way. Anyway it just adds to the mystery of life lol
I agree, if they couple agree to have an open r/s, thats their deal, but personally i wouldnt want an open r/s. i dont see the logic behind it.
<3 her. <3 this. Hot slut of the year!
Loopy, you may have a point there. I won't paint everyone with the same brush but I can see how having two men in the relationship could have different challenges. It's interesting to hear your perspective though. ;)
If the two people in the relationship agree to the rules, it's different but I agree, it is unfair when one doesn't.
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Submitted by kate773 on Sat, 06/09/2012 - 6:06pm.
I guess she really wants to be with him, so she has no choice but to believe him.
Sometimes in those situations, one person loves the person much more, so they will tell themselves to believe what the other person is telling them.
And its hard to say anything to them.
But yeh, cheating is just nasty. I know we are all adults, but if people wanna go fuck lots of people, then don't get hitched, stay single. its simple.
They wanna get hitched, because they want the stability and having someone to do stuff for them or "look after" them, its like "oh i dont have to do this now cuz my wife is doing it for me," but on the other hand they are "she never pleases me anymore, so i must go fuck another woman" and thats how they justify their shit.
having said all that, gay guys are the worst because they are both guys, at least i think women have more brains than guys... gay guys have "open" relationships and no one blinks twice at it, its is having low fat butter on toast for gay guys. and that falls back to the story that, these two guys need somebody to depend on, and someone to come home to, but they wanna fuck other people.
but i think lesbians are different, they are more relationship orientated.
But, yes, I agree men are responsible for keeping their dicks out of strange holes...picnic tables are ok, though.
These married men must be into jabba the hutt.
No, being nice, easy-going and loving does not equal being submissive. I'm talking about being a woman who's comfortable in her own skin, who's confident, has a positive outlook on life, who doesn't need constant approval or reassurance, who does her own thing, who doesn't constantly give her man grief because he's supposed to single-handedly fulfill some childish fantasy that the world revolves around her and only her.
A marriage is a partnership. If you want to be treated well, treat your partner well.
I see a lot of high-maintenance women with fake noses, fake tits, fake tans and no brains who berate their men in public and act like their shit doesn't stink. If he's not constantly paying attention to her, giving her money or jewelry or treating her like a puffed-up princess, he's a bastard. And then these women wonder why he cheats.
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Submitted by turnelbup on Sat, 06/09/2012 - 3:46pm.
So, bitchy wives out there: forget the botox and the tit job, thinking it will keep your husband home. Just stop the princess shit and be a nice, easy-going, loving person for a change!
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Men are 100% responsible for keeping their dicks in their pants.
Men who cheat are abusing the male privilege that lets them get away with it. It's not the woman's fault, and the problem won't be solved by demanding that women behave more submissively. Nice try, though.
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I like her plump, squatty sloth-hands. They're just made for lovin'.
This shit reminds me of a stalker I had. He was married and approached me. I told him I didn't date married men, and he blew a gasket! He was following me around "pissed" that he was "honest" with me. He tried to guilt me in to sleeping with him. I called the cops. He was a total freak. Apparently I have a character flaw for not sleeping with married men.
Submitted by Tigerlilly on Sat, 06/09/2012 - 8:46pm.
You know I read somewhere that fat chicks like sex more than their skinny counterparts, so maybe she be takin' care of some bidness and that's what da mens want regardless. Plus, million dollars says she totally does anal...and a lil' scat here and there...
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I read that too! Something about the fat holds more hormones or something.
YourClothesAreDead...mmmmm, I don't think so. I know lots of straight men who date, even marry, bitchy women, esp. if the men have low self-esteem. It's pretty sad, really. They deserve better.
Tigerlilly...I honestly think it is the individual, not her body size. I'm a size 3/4 and can rival or at least keep up with a man in the horniness department.
Migrainuse...not being a bitch and being "submissive" are two entirely different things. Being nice and pleasant to your spouse isn't being "submissive". It's really the way you ought to treat the person who you supposedly love so much you want to spend the rest of your life with. Ideally, the man should divorce someone for treating him like shit, but sometimes it doesn't happen that way and they go looking for someone who acts like she actually appreciates him. I'm not down with cheating, but I can see why someone would be tempted were he in that situation!
PrettyHateMachine...we tend to abhor what we're afraid of. I think that's what the deal is. I know I personally have body image issues. I had a great aunt who was an extremely obese person. Lovely lady. But I grew up w. knowing that she couldn't even bathe herself by herself, get to the bathroom alone, etc. so I think I've always had this fear in the back of my mind that I might end up like that someday (what I really fear is not being able to take care of myself!). So now, while I would never say anything about an obese person, I do have control issues w. food. I horde food...and I sometimes wait until the very last minute to eat, right before I feel faint...just to see how far I can get. I think it's also part of the reason I'm a vegetarian...b/c I can exercise some control. I'm not saying that's everyone's deal, but we do have a very weird relationship with food in the US and I think that's why people think it's ok to make rude comments about the overweight (they say shit about skinny people, too. Trust me).
As for this "lady" (using the term loosely), which it does take two to tango, no-one is forcing her to cheat with married men. It's just wrong. Sorry. I've had married men act attracted to me...even an ex who for some reason thought we were going to hook up?...and it just skeeved me out. I'm not sure why it's always the MARRIED ones who want me. Ugh.
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But why do we need all this monogamy? If you find someone you want to be with - why not? Are we (humans) the only species that force monogamy on the world? I say love 'em all.
Ah, but the hubbies have to take some blame too. After all, they are registering and paying at some site. Don't even like this lady but they're not innocent victims either.
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Submitted by misslainey on Sat, 06/09/2012 - 9:33pm.
I am also hearing thesehomewreckers give that bs about how they're not doing anything wrong. Bitch, you're messing with someone else's husband. You can't get your own man so you settle for leftovers.
Word. I'm 27 and I get married men in their 40s, 50s (some of whom are pretty hot, not gonna lie) asking me out. Look bro I don't do sloppy seconds but thanks anyways.
I would be devastated if my husband cheated on me. Even more so if he cheated on me with someone like her. If you are going to ruin your marriage at least upgrade a little bit.
Good on her, I guess. She's certainly not threatening to many wives. But if I paid for an illicit encounter and she showed up, I'd suggest we head out for dessert instead.
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Please: It's "rahnday."
I'm sorry, but I am fat and 44 andI look 10 years younger than this chick. No way she's just 45.
And I will say again I can't see anyone paying nearly $300/mo and this is what they hook up with--fat or not, she is old and haggard.
I am also hearing thesehomewreckers give that bs about how they're not doing anything wrong. Bitch, you're messing with someone else's husband. You can't get your own man so you settle for leftovers.
Submitted by Tigerlilly on Sat, 06/09/2012 - 8:46pm.
You know I read somewhere that fat chicks like sex more than their skinny counterparts
Don't know about that, but they must eat a mean dick.
Submitted by kate773 on Sat, 06/09/2012 - 6:06pm.
I think what you're doing now is the eat thing. Be supportive, and that's all you can do. She knows he's a cheater and we all know it's not the first or last tine.
Sometimes people put up with shit because they think they can change the other person,or feel they can't do better. I am never surprised at what my girlfriends and guy friends put up with. I know a guy who was with his wife for over 25 years. They had 6 kids and he wasn't sure if all were his. Finally, he got sick of her shit and left her (she had a 'friend' but claims they ever slept together, wink, wink), but because she was a stay at home 'mommy', he moved in with my other friends, made the mortgage payment on their house and kept the payments up on her car and his. To his credit, he says he did it because they still had some young kids, but she was a megabitch, nonetheless.
Anyway, if you express your opinion about him, it will drive a wedge between you two because she will take his side. I have had that happen to me a couple times and learned my lesson. When she hits rock bottom with the douche, she'll leave him. And then you'll be there with a shoulder for her to cry on.
She's not a gold digger, because she makes her own money and isn't looking for presents.
That's the only reason she's able to fuck them.
It's not like anyone would PAY/GIFT HER for a fuck.
And I'm sorry for bringing my drama here for you all to have to deal with. Helps to bitch it out, ya know??
Thanks Jane and WR. You're both right. :)
at a certain age (at about the age they can actually AFFORD a mistress) what's on the outside is not what's most important to men anymore. They want someone who is comfortable with herself and happy to see them, without all the baggage that can be in a room with someone you've been married to forever.
Is it bullshit? YES. but if she's as unencumbered and carefree, no strings attached, just a good time as she says she is, I can see her being very busy. Even if she isn't what society considers a classic beauty.
think about it, how many of us have seen a man leave his wife for someone no where near as beautiful? And this one doesn't WANT you to leave your wife ever. They must be lining up for her.
A lot of men don't cheat because they are afraid of the consequences. This right here is one of the most dangerous sort to marriage, gives you it all, takes/wants nothing.
fkn bitch.
oh, and the men are bastards.
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kate773, wise choice, you know it. Nothing worse that trying to help someone you care about and having it blow up in your face. Second that, "Team Friend" ;p
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Submitted by kate773 on Sat, 06/09/2012 - 7:46pm.
Ugh, that sucks. I am sorry that you have to deal with that. The thing is if she marries him, he will probably do it again. I'm sure there is that 1% out there that would learn their lesson and spend the rest of their lives making it up to their partner...but if you are saying he doesn't feel bad then probably not.
I have a friend who married the wrong guy, we all hate him...we are just waiting for her to figure it out. IT sucks cause you can't say anything because they will take it out on you.
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You know I read somewhere that fat chicks like sex more than their skinny counterparts, so maybe she be takin' care of some bidness and that's what da mens want regardless. Plus, million dollars says she totally does anal...and a lil' scat here and there...
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I'm pretty sure this is just a viral stunt for the sequel to some Gweneth Paltrow movie.
Submitted by WithinReason... on Sat, 06/09/2012 - 7:59pm
Kate773, sometimes advice of this type will fall to deaf ears though. Telling her outright could even backfire and you could lose her friendship. Totally agree with everyone saying he's a louse but she could hold it against you if you interfere. Wonder if there isn't some other way to let her know without you being the one to do it! Wouldn't want you to lose a friend but totally get why you'd want to tell her!
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Agreed, which is why I'm not going to say anything to her. I'm Team Friend, even if I hate her decision.
Meh, men cheat. Women like jewerly...
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Submitted by kokoskitten on Sat, 06/09/2012 - 7:57pm.
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Well HELLLO...everyone posting is a hot, skinny, size 2 blonde or an obese shut in with greasy hair who cries while eating a whole sheet cake in the dark while watching Lifetime :)
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Have you been spying on me? Throws away the rest of the cake and switches tv channel. : P
Submitted by Datura on Wed, 05/30/2012 - 10:59am.
I was a skinny, pink preemie. I looked like an earthworm until I was two months old.
The poster formerly known as Snow Owl formerly known as Nightowl, is ready to PARTAY!!!
It's hard to get your point across in word sometimes. I just have to say this last thing: I would NEVER, EVER be mean or make fun of someone for their weight. EVER. In fact, you will find much evidence here of me telling people to STFU when they call people fat (especially when they aren't.) I am not perfect at all and have many vices. I am sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings - it certainly was not intentional.
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And all Americans are obese idiots. No wait, that'd generalising wouldn't it?
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Submitted by babybunny on Sat, 06/09/2012 - 4:00pm.
More proof that British women are super delusional, aka the British woman who wrote the article about how hated she was for being so "beautiful" (which she wasn't) If she didn't look like Miss Piggy I may have believed that bullshit, but no porky the pig woman is going to be a successful mistress.
Submitted by RedHeadTheGinge on Sat, 06/09/2012 - 3:58pm.
She's English. The Brits have a very low standard of beauty since 95% of them are ugly as sin.
Submitted by kokoskitten on Sat, 06/09/2012 - 7:57pm.
Obviously! ;)
And Within. I've seen it on other posts before :/
Whether people mean harm or not, they could be causing it to someone who reads this site unintentionally by constantly bringing the subject up and judging overweight people in general so harshly.
PHM, could also be that some people find this lady's actions abhorrent and that her appearance is the first thing they can reach for to say how much they dislike her. Some view her as helping others' cheat, I'd also blame the cheaters, not just this person. my 2 cents.
Kate773, sometimes advice of this type will fall to deaf ears though. Telling her outright could even backfire and you could lose her friendship. Totally agree with everyone saying he's a louse but she could hold it against you if you interfere. Wonder if there isn't some other way to let her know without you being the one to do it! Wouldn't want you to lose a friend but totally get why you'd want to tell her!
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Submitted by PrettyHateMachine on Sat, 06/09/2012 - 7:49pm.
This site can be so depressing sometimes. I get the hate for this woman..she put herself out there. But the fat hate is just sick. Maybe bodies were not meant to be fat, but they also were not meant to drink alcohol or inhale chemicals shoved in a cigarette. But I'm sure none of the fat hating Dlisters have any nasty habit that is just as bad as over eating, yet easier to hide? Why does it matter to you if someone is fat? Please explain this to me. Because unless you want to fuck them, I don't see what the big fucking deal is? Is it an insecurity within yourself? Or does it make you feel good to be a bully by putting others down? Hate is hate. It doesn't matter if it's hate against someone for their race or their sexuality, being overweight, or because your just jealous of someone. It's not an attractive quality t
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Well HELLLO...everyone posting is a hot, skinny, size 2 blonde or an obese shut in with greasy hair who cries while eating a whole sheet cake in the dark while watching Lifetime :)
This site can be so depressing sometimes. I get the hate for this woman..she put herself out there. But the fat hate is just sick. Maybe bodies were not meant to be fat, but they also were not meant to drink alcohol or inhale chemicals shoved in a cigarette. But I'm sure none of the fat hating Dlisters have any nasty habit that is just as bad as over eating, yet easier to hide? Why does it matter to you if someone is fat? Please explain this to me. Because unless you want to fuck them, I don't see what the big fucking deal is? Is it an insecurity within yourself? Or does it make you feel good to be a bully by putting others down? Hate is hate. It doesn't matter if it's hate against someone for their race or their sexuality, being overweight, or because your just jealous of someone. It's not an attractive quality to have
BTW- there's a little more history here than I've previously mentioned.
1) He's a friend of her younger brother. That's how they met.
2) They already dated about 8 years ago but broke up (don't know why, I think it just didn't work out).
3) They had a brief one night stand about 5 years ago and my friend got pregnant. He wasn't ready to be a father so she had an abortion. I don't have an issue with that (I'm pro-choice, I was also was the one who went with her), what I had a problem with is that other than paying for half, he didn't do much else. I think he came over that night and brought a pizza or something, but that was the extent of it.
I didn't like him much after that but once they started dating again for real I gave him another chance for her sake. To be a good friend and be supportive. I figured he'd grown up and matured. For 3 years I've even gotten to like him. But I can't get past this one. I'm fiercely protective of my friends so I just want to wring his fucking neck. But I'll put a smile on my face and continue planning a shower next month and get ready for a wedding in October. Ugh.
Yeah, I told her the night she told me about this that I'd support her no matter what. Although privately its eating me up. I don't want to cause her any more pain by letting on that I'm not as supportive as i let on so I just have to deal in silence. It's just really hard. I don't know who else she told other than me and one of the other bridesmaids who went through a similar situation x 10 (after they were married, 4 kids, alcoholism, rehab 3 times). She was the one who suggested therapy believe it or not.
Anyhow, I just need to vent and get other peoples thoughts.
Submitted by Hockey fan on Sat, 06/09/2012 - 6:25pm.
Kate, you have my sympathy. I would not want to be in your shoes. Do other friends know about this? You should stage an intervention, and seriously talk this girl out of marrying this guy. If she goes into a relationship already knowing he's a cheater, she's in for a world of hurt. And wtf with his story-- first he says it was a one off, and then says "oh I just wanted to see if I could get away with it"? Fuck him. She should dump him and you should help her. I just think this wedding should be stopped at all costs. Jussayin.
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Unless the friend is uncommonly self-aware, it'll probably fall on deaf ears. She's definitely in all sorts of denial, and may lash out at everyone who's trying to get it through her head that marrying this guy is a BAD idea, including going so far as to kick them out of the wedding (I've seen it happen!).
@Kate - it might be worth it to talk to your friend one on one and frame the issue in terms of *her* happiness...and say that you don't want to see her make the wrong decision and get hurt again. Be prepared for her not to take it well. If you've already said your piece, and she's still determined to go through with it, nothing you can do. I hope it works out for her.
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@Kate, that's a sucky situation. I do think this guy's a piece of shit and will cheat again. It sounds like he's trying to prepare your friend to accept his cheating dirty ways, and he's definitely testing the waters to see if she's "ok" with it. The only fair thing to do is tell her how you feel, but it's tricky. In my experience, women don't want to be told how to act when it comes to love, and she might even resent you if you meddle too much. My tentative advice: Have one serious chat with her, and no more than that. She has to make the decision herself. Good luck with your friend!
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That's a toughie. But, you really don't need to pretend that everything is hunky dory. This is, after all, "their" issue that they are dealing with as they feel that they should. I would support your friend, even though you understandably don't agree with her decision. And hope that this never happens again. But when it comes to cheating, you can usually wish in one hand and shit in the other and see which one gets filled first.
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Kate, you have my sympathy. I would not want to be in your shoes. Do other friends know about this? You should stage an intervention, and seriously talk this girl out of marrying this guy. If she goes into a relationship already knowing he's a cheater, she's in for a world of hurt. And wtf with his story-- first he says it was a one off, and then says "oh I just wanted to see if I could get away with it"? Fuck him. She should dump him and you should help her. I just think this wedding should be stopped at all costs. Jussayin.