Jim Carrey Abandoned Jenny McCarthy's Son, So Says Jenny McCarthy (UPDATE: Jim Responds!)
Autism whisperer Jenny McCarthy and Jim Carrey humped on each other for 5 years and during that time he formed a relationship with her now 10-year-old son Evan. Since they broke up over 2 years ago, Jim hasn't called or visited Evan at all. Evan regularly tells Jenny that he misses Jim. Instead of calling Jim up to tell him to wave at Evan on Skype or some shit, Jenny put him on blast while promoting her newest shit show Love in the Wild on Howard Stern. Jenny told Howard that she hasn't actually talked to Jim, but she has gone through various "channels" to try to talk to him. What I think she means by that is that she sat in front of the TV, channel surfed until she landed on a channel playing Ace Ventura and then used her Indigo powers to send him a message through the screen. That's what she means. This is what Jenny told Howard (via UsWeekly) about Jim walking out on her son:
"I've tried to ask [Jim] numerous times [to see Evan], because my son still asks. I haven't [reached out directly] . . . I think that sometimes people need to take a real break from each other. But I still love him. I think you can love people from a distance and respect him. But as a mother, you just hope when you have a relationship with someone, it has nothing to do with the child when you break up.
I tell [Evan] that someday you'll cross paths, meet again, [but] it's hard. He's been in therapy. It's a process, he's working on it."
Would it be nice for Jim to visit Evan every now and again? Sure. Was it a dick move for Jenny to paint Jim as a heartless, child-hating shit bag when she hasn't even tried to contact him herself? Definitely. But we don't know the whole story. It could be complicated. But instead of using her son to get to Jim Carrey, Jenny should do what most hos do when they want to see Jim Carrey. Bitch should just put an Emma Stone cardboard cutout in her backyard and wait until Jim shows up. He will!
UPDATE: Jim issued a statement to TMZ where he made it clear that he doesn't see Evan anymore and also made it clear that Jenny needs to learn a little thing called STFU. Jim said, "I will always do what I believe is in the best interest of Evan's well being. It's unfortunate that Evan's privacy is not being considered. I love Evan very much and will miss him always."
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It's not his child, he has no obligation towards it. If he chooses to be around him and help him raise, then it is because he wants to and loves him not bec of some ex trying to trap him and emotionaslly blackmail him into it. People dont want to take care of their own kids and she is pushing him to take csre of her kid? What s dumb bitch.
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I don't care for her but in all fairness, McCarthy never claimed she cured her son's autism. She said he recovered. It's controversial, but there have been cases of children who were labelled autistic and later were not. As a doctor for a Time article about her speculated a few years ago, he may have had something else.
I do wonder what if any relationship Evan has with his bio father and how he feels about McCarthy making Evan into a public figure.
When you get into a relationship you have to think of ALL the consequences but our hearts don't allow that sometimes. It's all happened now and it's truly up to Jim to do whatever he feels is best. We have no idea what went down with them but it sure seemed like she was more than willing to find the next Mr Right. I think that's difficult to do esp when you have a special needs child.
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stop yapping about damn issues in public cause you aint gonna win. boo hoo fucking hoo.
got git yourself new sugar daddy and stfu.
delusional bitch.
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Evan is not Jim's problem, it's not EVEN his kid. I think it would be EVEN more confusing for the kid if Jim remained in life.
Whatever you are 600% right.
Now that this dumb scrag is slagging him off, I finally don't feel uneasy about finding him funny anymore.
Submitted by TBH on Thu, 06/07/2012 - 12:52am.
Wait where's the kid's father? Did he die? Does anyone have any info on this?
He's actor John Mallory Asher. I can't find anything about his ongoing role as parent or their post-divorce custody arrangements. I did find that he dated JLH in 2010, but who hasn't?
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Please: It's "rahnday."
Isn't she breaking the code of getmoneybitch by starting shit with a man who gave her a lot of money and a house too, I think?
STFU Jenny. Your child is still not cured and stop fooling yourself and spouting your b.s. and get some real help. That, or join Co$ since you're basically ignoring your son's disease. Some childhood diseases are making a comeback thanks to your shitty advice about not immunizing your children.
Jim owes you, and your son, nothing and he gave you money willingly. I'm pretty sure he's still a powerful man in H-wood and can make sure you never see a camera again.
Sorry about the rant =)
Submitted by Hekki on Wed, 06/06/2012 - 6:22pm.
Submitted by Andrei: "This is why I don't date men with young kids.. yep. Even if the guy is a good person... it's not really about you and him. It is about the kid at some point because it HAS to be. I don't want kids."
I was JUST having this discussion with a single mom friend today. She's dating and she said one guy said he liked her but he doesn't date women with kids. And she was a bit miffed and thought that was jerky. I said kids are a dealbreaker and he has every right to make that policy. It's no different from only wanting to date within your religion or area code. Or whatever.
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Totally! I still talk to an ex-boyfriend's adult sons, but they always reached out to me and their father did not want them to have contact with me after the break-up. After that experience, I swore off men with kids.
Can this dumb hoe show her stupidity in more ways? She is just the dumbest thing hoeing out her kid for her new show. Don't like Jim Carey, but he is NOT the kid's father! Where is the kid's father?
She's thirsty too.
Wait where's the kid's father? Did he die? Does anyone have any info on this? Am on team Jim, I think it would be weird for the kid to see Jim once in awhile especially since his mother has no romantic relationship with him anymore.
I like Jenny. I'll admit it. But it's not Jims place to be the father figure in her son's life (who has a Dad). He was a boyfriend, nothing more. Two years and the kids still not over it? I doubt it.
She's selling her son out (and Carrey) to promote her show. Disgusting excuse for a mother and a woman.
I don't think Jim Carrey did anything wrong. He had a relationship with this scalawag, didn't work out,but at least left her some dough for her and the kid. Most dudes walk away and say ''fuck it''.
She needs to drink a shot of STFU.
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Wasn't there a blind about a woman who was starting a new show and an old boyfriend who paid her off not to talk about him?
When people break-up that means they are done. Contact with the child may confuse him and since they were never married Jim never had any responsibility for the child. Jennie needs to stfu and let her kid hang with manwhore Urlacher.
She made their breakup public and even mentioned certain aspects of his personal life to the media. I don't blame him for trying to stay far away from her and by association the child. He's young and it's probably best for them to break the connection now. The way she operates she'll find another piggy bank to hitch on to soon and Jim will soon be forgotten. Why would she want to force her child on someone who doesn't want to be there??? WHERE IS THIS CHILD'S BIOLOGICAL FATHER???
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I hardly like Carrey but his response makes sense. One normally wouldn't be visiting the kid after the breakup. Some make exceptions, which is commendable, but that's not usually the case! And he gave Evan a trust fund? Very generous, I'd say!
And just where is this kid's father, John Mallory Asher? Did they sever all ties? And what about her current boyfriend? Yup, Jenny is a-promotin' - poor kid...
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Not a huge fan of Carrey (dude needs to grow the fuck up) but as usual this woman is acting like an idiotic asshole!
NEWSFLASH --- There is yet no cure for Autism and if you "cured" your son through diet, then your son has gastrointestinal allergies AND NOT AUTISM!!! Now go fuck off so we do not have to hear your famewhoring garbage anymore!
Submitted by chinlee3 on Wed, 06/06/2012 - 6:43pm.
Since he is bipolar maybe he'll change his mind
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Please: It's "rahnday."
I feel bad for the kid, but I agree with jim carrey. plus, jenny "cured" him of autism, so I'm sure he'll be alright.
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Submitted by Twat Muffin on Wed, 06/06/2012 - 4:34pm.
Sorry, I just saw this now. That construction- OMG. A couple of weeks ago I had to go to downtown Naperville. It was INSANE. I try to avoid it now as much as possible, but that day I had no option. It sucked. Do you know if they widening it or are they just putting in new sewers or something?
Listen bitches, your cray-cray will blast a man away regardless of your bay-bay if he ain't the kid's father and ain't legally obligated to shit.
You can get up on your soap box all you want about it, but it ain't gonna change a thang.
Never cared for Jim Carrey, never will but this bitch just sealed the deal that her son will never see Jimbo again by being some clingy-assed, passive aggressive media stalker type.
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I LOVE Jenny McCarthy but maturity and selflessness are not her strong points. And, her son is 10 and he's in therapy? What the fuck for? Jim Carrey obviously took the high road and did what he thought was best or Evan's sake.
Jim Carrey was just a boyfriend, NOT a husband. The bitch needs to move on and just be happy that Jim was willing to support her son financially with a trust.
Since he is bipolar maybe he'll change his mind
It sounds like Carrey thinks she uses the kid to get him to pay attention to her. Five years seems like a long time to allow your child to remain so focused on someone who has made it clear he isn't going to be a part of the kid's life.
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I would say there are a number of things happening here.
1) After 5 years with Jim, her son bonded with him. Always a difficult situation.
2) If she hasn't contacted (reached out) to him directly, what can he do.
3) Be careful how you introduce me to your kid. They are invested in the relationship too.
4) Stop putting your business in the streets (and on the air).
5) It is the choice of the other person if they want to continue to be involved with your child and ultimately with you.
Submitted by Andrei: "This is why I don't date men with young kids.. yep. Even if the guy is a good person... it's not really about you and him. It is about the kid at some point because it HAS to be. I don't want kids."
I was JUST having this discussion with a single mom friend today. She's dating and she said one guy said he liked her but he doesn't date women with kids. And she was a bit miffed and thought that was jerky. I said kids are a dealbreaker and he has every right to make that policy. It's no different from only wanting to date within your religion or area code. Or whatever.
Well they were together for five years, right? So it's not like the kid got attached to some guy who was only in the picture briefly.
However, the adults are no longer in a relationship, and haven't been for a while, and Evan is not Jim Carrey's son, so JC is not doing anything wrong here. And it is shitty of Jenny McC to say this shit publicly. As someone else pointed out, maybe she misses JC more than the kid, who is prolly not all that distraught.
If anyone should get grief over not being around, it is the boy's biological dad, if in fact he did distance himself from the kid and JMc when he realized the boy was autistic. THAT'S fucking disgraceful.
Carrey is nuts but he has no legal or moral duty to stay in touch with his ex-GF's son. Entirely his choice.
This chick has passed into the super-annoying category.
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Please: It's "rahnday."
I know someone who works at Mother McAuley high school and there are a few stories about her. Anyone else annoyed not just by her personality, but also her face? That chin and mouth scare the shit outta me.
Submitted by Andrei on Wed, 06/06/2012 - 5:09pm.
This is why I don't date men with young kids.. yep. Even if the guy is a good person... it's not really about you and him. It is about the kid at some point because it HAS to be. I don't want kids.
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Amen to that. Made exception to rule and still feeling the sting and burn long after it was over. You give 100% of yourself and the guy can't give equal 100% back as it should be in any partnership. You get a good 60% of the guy and all of the extra expectations that no matter how well you rise to the occasion to deliver, you will get blamed in the same breathe in the end. No thanks.
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Submitted by cdawg on Wed, 06/06/2012 - 4:10pm.
I'll never feel sorry for this bitch about ANYTHING after all the shit she's said about vaccines. Even worse is that she goes on and spouts bullshit about how she cured her son's Autism. BITCH, PLEASE. Way to manipulate parents with autistic children into thinking if they do this-and-that-procedure made up by some crack pot doctor, they can have a "normal" child, instead of encouraging them to find joy in having a child who views the world in such a different and often wonderful way.
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Women like this scare men off dating single mothers. Plenty of single moms don't expect their boyfriend to be surrogate dads to their kids but when Jenny accepts huge trust fund for her child and STILL whines about Jim not being in touch, plenty of men will figure they'd rather not date a single mother with a 10-foot pole.
Jim is bi-polar and is dating a fugly russian hooker-type. He probably knows he's in no condition to be a faux-father to anyone (except his much-younger girlfriend, who probably calls him Daddy). STFU, Jenny! It was Jenny's job to protect her son from getting attached to a guy who mightn't remain in her life. EPIC FAIL, Jenny. Don't blame Jim; blame y'self.
Jim is gross but his response was pretty tasteful. I'm sure he cares of the kid, but by distancing himself, I think he's doing the kid a favor. He's young and I think it might be even more confusing for him if Jim were to just show up randomly every once in a while. It's not like he would be around regularly.
I get the impression that Jenny had a new man and maybe Jim didn't want to add to the confusion by staying around . Sure, it might be different years later but could also be confusing for everyone .
Why should Jim have to explain why he isn't around ?
This is why I don't date men with young kids.. yep. Even if the guy is a good person... it's not really about you and him. It is about the kid at some point because it HAS to be. I don't want kids.
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it's sad, but it happens every day. i get it, but in this case, i can see the other side too. it's a little different if you're the bio dad, i think.
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I feel sorry for her son, because his own mother doesn't seem to rememeber that children are PEOPLE who have the same rights to privacy as everyone else. Blabbing on to the world about his medical conditions (autism) is an invasion of the child's privacy. What makes her think that she has any right whatsoever to turn his life into a social experiment? It's like fuckers who post 10,000 potentially embarrassing pics of their kids on Facebook. Give your kid some privacy and respect.
cdawg -- that's an interesting way to look at it, and you're right. If anything, I mostly feel sorry that her poor son has this cheap, tawdry, asshole of a bitch for a mother. Poor kid.
Louise -- you are an old soul. Many of my friends tell me the same thing, too. What do you think about all that fucking construction on 75th Street? It took me 20 minutes to get down there yesterday!!! That's my main drag.
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btw - you're an asshole.
dont date a woman with kids, cause you cant really separate the two.
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Stupid twat has a new show she is promoting. What a way to do it! Yes, and a new Playboy layout to boot! Mother of the Year you are not, whore!
off, michael k.
jim is not a moron, and knows that ditching a kid who was 8 at the time who knew you since before his memory starts, isnt okay.
and a trust fund doesnt cover abandonment.
jim's a dick.
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Submitted by Twat Muffin on Wed, 06/06/2012 - 4:08pm.
Hahahaha! I love when people call me young! I'm an old soul. ;-)
Sure Jimmy is gross but in his defense, he was on Chelsea like a week before they officially split up and he went on and on about Jenny and seemed really happy with her, so I always assumed that it was her who broke up with him.
This is some hoodrat shit. So because you're a whore and left him, instead of trying to make it work(if only for your child), it's Jim's fault for not calling your ho-bag ass back?? That poor child. Someone get him a mother with a face that moves and some goddamned vaccines.
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Hate people who put their personal shit out there. Hope she dont complain when we all dump on her for wanting this nutjob in her son's life let alone her crackpot claims at curing her son.
I went to McAuley. I was a freshman when Jenny was a senior, and she graduated in 1990. So 39-40 sounds about right.
Submitted by Twat Muffin on Wed, 06/06/2012 - 3:34pm.
Yes! She worked at Joe Bailey's on the south side and everyone down there has a story about her. I call into question her alleged age of 39, as well. I'm 36 and a girl I used to know went to Mother McAuley high school (where Jenny went) and graduated the same year I did. Jenny was already graduated when my friend started, which would make her at least 4-5 years older then us.