Bobbi Kristina Is In The Hospital

He's not there because he knows he's responsible.

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I was entirely unaware of how sucky it would get.

- Gautama.

I don't think they should have cancelled the pre Grammy party, but if I were here friend or close collegue who knew her for years, I would have skipped it. It's in bad taste to party when someone close to you has died, and her daughter and family members are grieving. Poor BK is in the hospital because she is overwhelmed. Who knows if she has the proper support, of if there is not enough support in the world to get over the loss of your mom in these circumstances at her age. I didn't watch the Grammys (I never do) but I would probably have found all the talk of Whitney exploitative. And all this gossip (you know her death was what most talked about at the pre and post parties), is really in bad taste, but human nature. The only judgement I have for Whitney is this: It was reported that she took Xanax before she sang. If you can't do your job without drugs, well, maybe you should not do that job anymore. I think these stars get so addicted to the fame and money and the applause... they can't see how the business is killing them. The day I have to take drugs so I can do my job, is the day I need to look for another job. I'm sure Whitney had no intention of ever leaving her daughter behind like this, but one has to wonder, why even start with all these incredibly addictive pain killers and sedatives especially if you already know you are a recovering substance abuser. Hollywood.

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Why shouldn't they? It's not their fault she acted the way she did.

I can only imagine what she must be going through. I only hope she gets through this ok. Peace be with her.

Her body isn't even cold and her own peers are having a partay & being photographed with big ol grins. Fucking LA....Just incomprehensible to me.

I don't know if this has been posted here before but:

Bobby Brown arrived at LAX a few hours ago
The Coroner finished up the autopsy earlier today
BHPD is withholding the results until the tox screen is completed (est 6-8 weeks)
It is being reported that prescription bottles of Anti-Anxiety and Sleeping medications (among others) were found in Whitney's room
The Grammy after-parties are in full swing as if NOTHING had happened. The one at Capital Records is one big fame whore magnet (Pararite Hilton was in full Strike-a-Pose mode)
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"How nice, to feel nothing, and still get full credit for being alive."
- Kurt Vonnegut, Slaughterhouse-Five

Poor little thing is an orphan now and all the money and show biz connections available to her may not be enough.

@chola:

Diana Ross has always been 2 heaps of steaming shit so you shouldn't be surprised.

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John Garfield
No one lives forever

After all these pages of comments, I'm STILL trying to wrap my head around the fact that assholes were still partying while Whitneys body layed died upstairs and everyone was all jovial all. Then Diana Ross saying tonight 'aren't we all having fuuuunnn!?!!! Bitch stfu and sit the fuck down, I'm extremely appalled @ how Whitneys peers are handling this.

I'm not saying people have to be balling and depressed to express grief but damn!!! Its like nothing happened, and Etta James didn't even get a shout out @ the Grammys.

This shit is tooo fucking eery and weird.

Just a few more and I'll shut up:
Eebil, Within Reaon, and Hockey Fan: thank you, I was so afraid to say the things I did outloud (it's true shrinks and psychiatrist really are nutty, myself included), that makes them real. And Hockey, don't give me too much cradit it's when we're faced with these situatoins that we find out what we're really made. Thanks for letting me vent. Peace be with each ofyou.

"A candle loses nothing of its light by lighting another candle."--catholicschoolgirl

Fuck. This is all so sad. My heart goes out to that young woman...I hope she is able to find peace.

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Never question Bruce Dickinson!

Didn't this poor kid tell Whitney to get a divorce from Bobby? I feel bad for her.

Submitted by jussayin on Sun, 02/12/2012 - 7:13pm.

THIS THIS THIS THIS FUCKING THIS

How intact do you think he is right now now? but, yeah, please resume your regularly scheduled scapegoating.

Why is an 18 year old girl staying alone in a hotel the day after her mom oasses away??

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Submitted by sushi on Sun, 02/12/2012 - 6:05pm.

some folks' opinions are indeed a tad internally inconsistent

just repeating what another poster said in previous thread -- they believed that New Edition's contract had provision that the entire group goes on or no one gets paid or performs. if so, explains why BB performed last night -- there were 5(?) other performers and others counting on him to show last night so they could get paid.

Hey Adolf, sounds like you could use some Xanax and a nice long bath.

Judging by the photos of BK published in recent years, she's just as fucked up as her parents. Good luck with that, kid.

AtomicCity, all I can say is thank you for posting that. *hugs*

This poor child. No one deserves this.

Submitted by nunya_bizness on Sun, 02/12/2012 - 7:59pm.
Quit painting Bobby as a monster.

He seems to have weaned himself off the drugs and has moved on and started a new life and family. Whitney also moved on with her life (hello, Ray-J)

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Yes, and people said Whitney seemed to be making a comeback and was clean.

Addicts say that they clean all the time. Unless you are there 24/7 you have no idea whether they are clean and sober. Since history is usually the best indicator, I tend not to believe the addict.

BTW, he's been his own worst enemy you know, unless you call multiple arrests and failure to pay child support no big deal.

The times I've gotten really weepy about Whitney's death is when I've seen footage of her with little Bobbi K.

For some reason, maybe because I have daughters (and I am one), it gets me.

WTF. Larry King is on CNN talking about the Clive Davis Grammy party.

First of all, Clive Davis DID ATTEND the party.

Secondly, he's talking about how great Tony Bennett performed and how they handed out awards and shit and it's like WHAT THE HAYLE dude. This is some fucked up shit. Do these people not have a conscience??? I'm sick to my stomach.

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Submitted by BubblesTate on Sun, 02/12/2012 - 8:06pm.

Actually Bobbys mom died in 2011
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You are correct it was January 2011 and not January 2012.

Be intrigued, be interested. DON'T be stupid.---TheBreakdown

I'm not sure if anyone here has actually dealt with lifelong, clinical anxiety, but the same pills everyone is trashing help me live a normal life. I've spent thousands and thousands of dollars on docs, psychs, treatment, counselling, ER trips for severe, PAINFUL physical symptoms of anxiety/panic. Like deep nerve pain, headaches, muscular spasms, TMJ that wrecks my whole upper body. I've tried everything - EVERYTHING - and benzos are the only thing that help in that moment of panic. Obviously I use other therapies, but if I didnt have benzos just in case of a severe panic attack, I couldn't leave the house. This is from someone who suffers multiple panic attacks DAILY, not someone who "gets stressed". My anxiety is chemical and inherited from family, not the result of normal day-to-day stresses.

Kevin Federline better hope that Britney lives a long happy life.

Be intrigued, be interested. DON'T be stupid.---TheBreakdown

I was Bobbi Kristina's exact same age when my dad died at the age of 47. I had my mom and siblings there with me, and together we got through it. It breaks my heart to think that she's alone at some hospital dealing with all of this at once and without family nearby. I'm praying for her.

All those who say that Whitney was a crackhead and have no sympathy...you can honestly go fuck yourselves. Yes, she made bad choices, but at the end of the day she's someone's mother, daughter, friend, cousin, etc. It's not like her death hurts *less* because of the circumstances. It's a tragedy nonetheless, and my heart aches for those closely affected.

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Douchechill!

Actually Bobbys mom died in 2011

With her parents and all their problems it's probably unlikely she was taught coping skills that would get her through this kind of tragedy. Crack is whack. My guess is she's sedated in the ER and will be released or put in Mt Sinai's psych ward for a few days. She looks exactly like her father. Exactly like Bobby Brown.

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Quit painting Bobby as a monster.

He seems to have weaned himself off the drugs and has moved on and started a new life and family. Whitney also moved on with her life (hello, Ray-J)

Whitney was the one who introduced Bobby to the hard drugs. That whole glammed up barbie doll, squeaky clean look was at the urging of her record company. They were 2 peas in a pod.

Towards the end, Bobby and Whitney had an amicable relationship. Whitney performed at Bobby's mother's funeral in January. Yep, he just lost his mother last month.

I hope that Bobbi Kristina can pull herself together and lead a sane, normal life like Nona Gaye, Lisa Marie Presley and Frances Bean.

Be intrigued, be interested. DON'T be stupid.---TheBreakdown

Submitted by Evil_Cupcake on Sun, 02/12/2012 - 6:09pm

He has violated his probation and dodged jail many times.

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im 26 years old and I cannot imagine losing my mom right now. My dad died when I was 9 and ever since that time I have dreaded the day that she would leave this world. My heart aches sooo much for Bobbi Kristina. I cant imagine the agony she is in at this moment. God please bring comfort to this child.
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Water seeks it's own level, so Whitney sought a partner just like herself, and let's not be foolish about it, that she was some high toned, recreational drug user until "addict" Bobby Brown got a hold of her. She was a grown ass woman who knew her way around drugs before meeting Brown, and it is really easy to place blame on him because he didn't have her goody two shoes rep, all designed by Clive Davis, like she had, but make no mistake, she was older than him and not some innocent lamb who was led astray by Brown. She liked Brown because he was what she was, a drug user. Pure and simple. NO ONE forced her to do anything as far as drug use, and Brown, as scummy as he may have been attempted to stop many times and Whitney didn't want to, and that is something, she herself admitted.

She was a great singer, but she was not a perfect person. No one can make you an addict but you. FACT!

I keep saying this but maybe Bobbi K distanced herSELF from her family. Maybe it's not that they aren't there for her but she doesn't want them to be.

Look it is common knowledge that Booby Brown never met a drug he did not like and he was addicted. Now Whitney may have used before him but she was not an addict...Bobby was an ADDICT in every sense of the word. Nasty low rent effen nikka will get his come uppins because he treated Whitney like a dirty diaper...anyway...Her mother and dionne did an intervention with law enforcement and health care people and got legal papers to have her put into rehad and take Bobbi when she was a baby...and that had a good outcome for a bit on the situation but she needed to lose about 170 pounds of weight(Booby Brown)that JACK a z z should have been the one to OD...no one will miss his ghetto ripped muggly a z z when he is gone...that is fo' sho"

Submitted by sushi on Sun, 02/12/2012 - 6:52pm.
Submitted by sushi on Sun, 02/12/2012 - 6:05pm.

He's still her father, but what if he's a father who still abuses drugs? What if he enables his daughter, who has already dabbled in coke, to self-medicate?

I'm just saying a bio bond does not necessarily mean that this person is the one who should comfort.

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I really do appreciate and respect that you've toned-down the "shoving a crackpipe in Bobbi's face" rhetoric, and that you are concerned about her welfare. I'll just say that as a kid who's had a shitty Dad, a lot of kids still want their shitty Dads to be around during tough times, no matter how messed up that sounds to other people.

Just great - anxiety. So she'll get a script of her very own Xanax so she can repeat the process.

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Poor girl.

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his daddy just died last month
his mom last year
now his ex-wife

sucks being Bobby Brown right now!

Bobby has probably been a bad influence and maybe he's still on drugs but unless you really think he's going to show up and shove a crack pipe in B Kirstinas mouth then I think he should be there for her. They probably both need each other right now.

Sincerely,
Alana Smithee

You perfect people on here putting down Bobby Brown, after the love of his life, and the mother of his child, has died...welll.. You are all assholes. Rotten pieces of shit. I hope you never have to experience what he is going through now. You are all Disgusting.

So sad for all.

Will we ever know if it was suicide or accidental drowning? She seemed fine only hours before this.

Submitted by sushi on Sun, 02/12/2012 - 6:05pm.
I find it interesting how there's almost near universal opinion that Bobby Brown is the catalyst to Whitney's downfall. So why the fuck do people think HE needs to be by his daughter's side now? To light her crackpipe?
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Because he's still her FATHER. My dad was a fuckwit who was estranged from me and my mom, but when she died, he had an unspoken obligation to STEP THE FUCK UP, even though I seriously resisted it. And I'm glad to say that he has.

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He's still her father, but what if he's a father who still abuses drugs? What if he enables his daughter, who has already dabbled in coke, to self-medicate?

I'm just saying a bio bond does not necessarily mean that this person is the one who should comfort.

I'm not sure I even believe in prayer, but I'll be praying for Bobbi Kristina. Poor kid. I hope TMZ keeps their distance.

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Submitted by Evil_Cupcake on Sun, 02/12/2012 - 6:11pm.
Submitted by sushi on Sun, 02/12/2012 - 6:05pm.
I find it interesting how there's almost near universal opinion that Bobby Brown is the catalyst to Whitney's downfall.

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Actually, Whitney did coke before she got with Brown. People assume because of her goody-goody image she was an innocent, but I remember reading years ago how she was doing coke and Clive Davis freaked the fuck out on her and told her to get it straight that she had an image to keep up, and this was way before Brown.

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Okay, I'll restate it: there's near universal agreement that he enabled her and helped her slide progress.

My point is: if this guy is as big a shit as we all know he is, whether or not he is her father, he may not be what she needs. If she's already abusing drugs someone who may also be using and will help her self-medicate might not be the proper person to be around her.

Submitted by AtomicCity on Sun, 02/12/2012 - 6:16pm.

Sorry to hear about your loss. It is so heatbreaking! Drugs can hit across the board and those who are left behind, are left with so much pain! I am glad MK has this space where everyone can share their stories with others!

I too wish Bobbi has a support system to help her through this time!

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"What is that strange clear liquid dripping out of my eye?" MK

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Submitted by Hotmami on Sun, 02/12/2012 - 4:44pm.
Fuck.

Bobby, your daughter needs you.

--I doubt it. She needs some sane people around her...and I've been wondering, where were cousin Dionne and godmother Aretha when Whitney's parents were on drugs, and now when Bobbi Kristina was born to parents on drugs? How come no family member came in to help or have the child taken away to a better place? And none of the handlers cared about this child? People just don't help each other, and it makes me sick. If my friend/cousin/whoever I care about was on drugs and had a baby, I would do everything I could to take that kid to a safe place, even at the cost of friendship. Poor thing.

AtomicCity, thank you for sharing your story. Sometimes I need to be slapped back into humanity.
You did that. Take care.